BearHugger Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 Hey all. I haven't been here in awhile. It's amazing to remember my username and password from over a year ago. And not to mention kind of amusing seeing my posts that far back! lol. I can't believe how feelings change so much with time. Writing back then, full force about a guy who I now am on a good term friendship and no dating interest in. Who knew. Well now I am back and needing a little advice. I am not on the end of the rope dealing with breakup, but needing a little guidance. This is going to sound rediculous.. the description of this relationship.. I just really need the advice. I have a bet that the majority are going to say to "Forget him" but I don't know. Onward I suppose. There was this guy I worked with... I was buddies with him the short while he worked with us. I was currently dating the Previous guy I posted about when I knew this guy. Anyway, he disappeared and quit. Moved to a different store. He was also in a relationship when I started being friends with him. Screwing up a short term relationship because he kissed his ex of 3 years... he tells me he thinks it was funny I was under his nose the whole time. And keeps mentioning that he could have just avoided the whole thing and never dated either of those girls again and just dated me when he first met me. Well. So I said he disappeared, occasionally I would see him in the store, he randomly asked me to go to a "party" with him and his friends. Long story short: we gave up on directions to the party, it was too dark and cold out to find the place. We ditched his friends, spent the night together just hanging out in his vehicle Just talking. Started hanging out from the day on. Four months later (now), I hang out with him and his friends occasionally. 2 weeks ago he goes out of nowhere: "Calin do you think Angela is pretty?" I get embarassed and cover his mouth. He repeats himself. I tell him "Don't" and Calin goes "Ehhh.." His friend Mason goes "At least he's being honest". Calin goes "Oh weee're being honest.... okay. Ehhh..." My face turns beat red and I get embarassed. I wanted to leave. Alex acted like what he did was no big deal. People have feelings, and I told him if it were a switch situation and my girlfriends were doing that to him, he couldn't say it wouldn't bruise his ego just a little. - but he did say that. He said he wouldn't care if he were in that situation. So this brings me to the fact that I feel he was being out of line, and he doesn't believe he was. So now let's talk more so current, instead of two weeks ago. Yesterday I was playing Halo 3 with him and his brother. They were going on about the waterfalls in the game. Keep in mind his brother is partially special ed... and he doesn't realize what he says sometimes. But they say the waterfall on this game is beeautiful. Out of nowhere I'm sitting on the couch with Alex, and his brother goes "Yaa the waterfall is even more beautiful than you!" I again... go beat red in embarassment, and try to ignore it. Alex whispers "Im sorry" but I was seriously annoyed for a few hours. His buddies, Calin and Mason come over... Calin keeps picking on me about my "playing skills". I'm not a big fan of gaming anymore, I spent a large portion of my teenage years doing it, but don't get into it anymore... But anyway. He keeps poking fun at me, all in all, I didn't really have much fun being over there, and leave early. Around 8 pm. Normally I would want to spend every minute with Alex but it just sucked. I sometimes feel ignored when his friends are over too. Actually he just called now in the middle of me typing this. 3 missed phone calls. I am still really mad at how he has been treating me around his friends and brother and don't know what to do. So it comes dooown to.... call him back. Or stay strong and stop talking to him for a few days until I can cool down.
Aintayankee Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 Maybe he just like poking fun at you, not caring. Or he cares about you, but you are so funny and amusing when you are always mad. That's why guys annoy girls, cause they are kinda cute when they are mad. WTF getting mad at his special ed brother..............let that one go. That ain't right ya hear. I don't think he is in on the teasing scheme. The graphics are great in that game, so he was relating it to the nearest and only comparable thing he could come up with at the time. Anyway, I say forget it if you aren't comfortable. Seems pointless if you don't wanna be with him........by the way, how old are you? Just curious, cause sounds like it could be teenager stuff. Just don't bother. It seems you have nothing else better to do. I think that he could like you, but you keep getting mad at him in a sort of playful way. But your personality just doesn't match his world or life I think. Just couldn't be like it should. Good luck.
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