rutger22 Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 I got into a big fight w/ my b/f and I haven't heard from him in a few weeks. The fight was my fault. I s he still mad or is he over me???
hopeforlove243 Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 If you know it is your fault for the fight, why don't you give him a call and say sorry first?
analyseThis Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 well i hope he gives you some kinda closure without just leaving you hanging; but seriously this all depends on how bad the fight was and what it was over. have u tried contacting him?
Author rutger22 Posted September 29, 2007 Author Posted September 29, 2007 Yes I tried contacting him sev. times, said sorry but also blamed him! Big mistake since it was my fault. Should I try to apologize w/o blaming him?
analyseThis Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 Yes I tried contacting him sev. times, said sorry but also blamed him! Big mistake since it was my fault. Should I try to apologize w/o blaming him? placing blame doesnt help esp when you know its your fault; Try to apologize and talk calmly and see if you can get to some even grounds.
Travis L Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 Yes I tried contacting him sev. times, said sorry but also blamed him! Big mistake since it was my fault. Should I try to apologize w/o blaming him? Never apologize for your actions and then put blame on the other person. Accept responsibility for your part (be detailed) and stop...usually he/she will admit his/her own responsibility and apologize for his/her part, as well. You messed up...just admit it to him and go from there.. Don't expect him to come running home but at least you can rest easy knowing that you tried to make it right...the rest is up to him.
LakesideDream Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 There are people I have known in my life that I will never "get over". For whatever reason it's just not possible to be in eachothers lives any longer. Maybe you should try contacting him after some real time has passed, two or three months. Send him a nice card, or a small gift with a "I was thinking about you" message. Don't dive right back in with the "blame game". Your effort may catch his eye, or tug his heartstrings, you never know! Good Luck.
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