Trialbyfire Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 A female perspective. As simple an answer as that is I'm surprised you didn't pick up on it. I have female friends who I enjoy talking to because, while I may not necessarily always agree with them, it's good to get perspectives that my guy friends don't always give. I think it's just hard for you to see, TBF, because you're still very bitter towards men. All of your replies come from the perspective of assuming the worst of men. Yahhhh!! I've finally made the bitter category. To think NJ wouldn't give it to me months ago and now I've finally succeeded. Overall, you're probably right. There are a far smaller number of men I do respect, than the ones I don't. Hang on...that's applicable to women too.
Woggle Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 I love it when a woman persues me. Not only did my wife pursue me but she also proposed and I found it very refreshing for a woman to just go for it. As for women liking dumb men that may be true with certain women but do you really want these women anyway? I never dumb myself down for any woman and I have had success plus it weeds out the ones I really don't want much to do with anyway. I can't be with a woman that I can't have an intelligent conversation with.
mpower95 Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 I myself prefer to pursue the woman, but have had instances where a woman has pursued me. I really don't mind a woman doing the pursuing, as long as it's in a classy way and she is not a persistent/borderline psycho.
Woggle Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 I myself prefer to pursue the woman, but have had instances where a woman has pursued me. I really don't mind a woman doing the pursuing, as long as it's in a classy way and she is not a persistent/borderline psycho. That goes for either gender. I don't want a bunny boiler either but that a woman making the first moves does mean she is one.
halfarock Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 KMT I think you just don't "get it." Caliguy and I are saying that we would not even waste our time with a knock-girl with no brains. *I am not trying to be mean here* We don't need to act like a monkey to get their attention. And when you do act like that then other women see that and the mature women are not going to take you serious... I get the feeling that not everyone's standard of intelligence or class is the same.
Green Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 I get the feeling that not everyone's standard of intelligence or class is the same. of course, hahah stupid humans when will they learn
uniqueone Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 I don't want a bunny boiler either but that a woman making the first moves does mean she is one. What would mean that she is one?
Woggle Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 What would mean that she is one? A woman that can't take no for an answer,
uniqueone Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 A woman that can't take no for an answer, You mean you're actually saying the word "no" to her and she keeps asking or do you act evasive and tell her that you're busy?
CaliGuy Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 A woman that can't take no for an answer, Meh. A woman that plays hard to get is far more satisfying
tom27 Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 If she's my type, hell yeah! Otherwise, god no. I already have that problem with a few girls that I consider just friends.
Author gsusisking Posted October 1, 2007 Author Posted October 1, 2007 I love it when a woman persues me. Not only did my wife pursue me but she also proposed and I found it very refreshing for a woman to just go for it. As for women liking dumb men that may be true with certain women but do you really want these women anyway? I never dumb myself down for any woman and I have had success plus it weeds out the ones I really don't want much to do with anyway. I can't be with a woman that I can't have an intelligent conversation with. That is so awesome about your wife!!!!!!!
Woggle Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 That is so awesome about your wife!!!!!!! She is an awesome woman and I feel very lucky to have found a one in a milion woman like her.
Woggle Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 You mean you're actually saying the word "no" to her and she keeps asking or do you act evasive and tell her that you're busy? I mean actually telling a woman no. My ex is a classic case of a bunny boiler who couldn't handle the fact that I was another woman even though I told her long before that that it was over.
DutchGuy Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 If she's my type, hell yeah! Otherwise, god no. I already have that problem with a few girls that I consider just friends. The girls that do take initiative, by my experience, aren't anybody's type. Can't say I ever get pursued by anything remotely attractive. All the cute girls have enough of admirers as it is, they don't need to go out and ask for it.
Poboy Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 The girls that do take initiative, by my experience, aren't anybody's type. Can't say I ever get pursued by anything remotely attractive. All the cute girls have enough of admirers as it is, they don't need to go out and ask for it. if the guy is good looking and/or has a lot of money , he will be chased by all kinds of women.
uniqueone Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 I mean actually telling a woman no. My ex is a classic case of a bunny boiler who couldn't handle the fact that I was another woman even though I told her long before that that it was over. But if a man doesn't take no for an answer then he's not a bunny boiler.........
halfarock Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 There are some women who pursue men in a way that is a lot more subtle than the way men pursue women. They’ll come around and be extra nice to you, be sensitive to what you say. They’ll say nice things about you, defend you if someone says something harsh about you. They’ll absolutely light up every time you encounter them. They will be like really into you but at the same time thinking that they have to act like a lady. So they will keep coming around, making it obvious, that attraction, in the hopes that you will reciprocate in kind. It is like they chase you until you catch them.
CaliGuy Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 if the guy is good looking and/or has a lot of money , he will be chased by all kinds of women. Actually, if he has a great personality he'll be pursued as well.
lino Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 I don't mind it but if it's too over the top then I don't like it.
uniqueone Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 if the guy is good looking and/or has a lot of money , he will be chased by all kinds of women. I recently knew a guy who was fairly nice looking and had a lot of money. He certainly didn't seem like a nice person underneath it all from what I found. In fact, most guys who have looks and money usually don't turn out to be very nice. That sounds like a generalization of course but I can't think of any of that group that were too good of people.
Green Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 The only way to truely get chased by women is to be rich and famouse, and have atleast some charisma and good looks. Other then that even if your Charming, Atractive, Confident, and Wealthy your still going to have to make some effort to get women, A man containing all of those qualties will have a much easier time. And in the end you have to get the women chasing you because you scare them off if you just chase them all the time.......
tom27 Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 The girls that do take initiative, by my experience, aren't anybody's type. Can't say I ever get pursued by anything remotely attractive. All the cute girls have enough of admirers as it is, they don't need to go out and ask for it. On the contrary, the last girl I was pursued by, I had the best relationship with. She was basically everything I ever could've wanted. Its just too bad I distanced myself from her because of a huge misunderstanding, and now I'm suffering. lol....
uniqueone Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 How about neither one gets "caught". How about two people just get to know one another?
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