loveinlife Posted September 28, 2007 Posted September 28, 2007 I responded by saying. Im doing okay, how are you? then i haven't heard from her the whole day. she is an ex, its been 2 months i haven't seen or spoke with her. what is she trying to do?
blueladybird Posted September 28, 2007 Posted September 28, 2007 Dont get too excited. She may be just be saying hello. See if she contacts you again, and dont act to eager to hear from her
niceguy27 Posted September 28, 2007 Posted September 28, 2007 Yeah, chances are she is testing the waters with you. Dont be too quick to jump back on her. Respond with "Real good. Been pretty busy." Keep it real small and light. She is now probably starting to wonder what you have been up to lately. Keep doing what you have been keeping busy and stuff.
Author loveinlife Posted September 28, 2007 Author Posted September 28, 2007 thanks for the responses! =) she hasn't responded. just leave it there and wait?
CaliGuy Posted September 28, 2007 Posted September 28, 2007 She's just making sure you're still on her string. I would have waited at least a week or two before replying if I were you. Since I am me, I would not have replied at all.
Author loveinlife Posted September 28, 2007 Author Posted September 28, 2007 She's just making sure you're still on her string. I would have waited at least a week or two before replying if I were you. Since I am me, I would not have replied at all. Thanks Cali, its just the thought of my ex, someone who i trusted so much would turn there back on me, and play these games. I should of wait, btw what did you learn from the book No More Mr. Nice Guy? im about page 36, so far it explains the psycology of the Mr. Nice guy without the treatments. hope to hear from you soon. =)
CaliGuy Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 Thanks Cali, its just the thought of my ex, someone who i trusted so much would turn there back on me, and play these games. I should of wait, Meh, what's done is done. Just keep that in mind for future reference. btw what did you learn from the book No More Mr. Nice Guy? im about page 36, so far it explains the psycology of the Mr. Nice guy without the treatments. hope to hear from you soon. =) You'll learn... How to be confident. How being a "door mat" nice guy chases women away. You'll learn to be comfortable saying no. You'll learn how a REAL, BALANCED man behaves. You'll learn that you don't have to be a people-pleaser to be loved. There's much more. If you're having doubts as to whether you are a "door mat" nice guy or not, get the book.
Nagini Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 I responded by saying. Im doing okay, how are you? then i haven't heard from her the whole day. she is an ex, its been 2 months i haven't seen or spoke with her. what is she trying to do? Waves hand excitedly!!! Ooh oh. I know the answer to this one. Good news. Still thinks about you and still might want you again. Bad News. Is playing not so subtle game to see YOUR interest. Play it cool. Just say how busy you are and seem upbeat if she contacts you again. People just don't IM people they were once romantic with months later for no reason. I forget people I dont still have intimate feelings for. If I dont want a guy no way in hell am I striking up fresh communications with him.
Author loveinlife Posted September 29, 2007 Author Posted September 29, 2007 Waves hand excitedly!!! Ooh oh. I know the answer to this one. Good news. Still thinks about you and still might want you again. Bad News. Is playing not so subtle game to see YOUR interest. Play it cool. Just say how busy you are and seem upbeat if she contacts you again. People just don't IM people they were once romantic with months later for no reason. I forget people I dont still have intimate feelings for. If I dont want a guy no way in hell am I striking up fresh communications with him. maybe i should just move on and not think about her as much as i used to, the thoughts of her consumes my mind occasionally, i shouldn't and don't deserve this kind of hurt. Thanks for giving me your comments. =)
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