Bigbody Posted September 28, 2007 Posted September 28, 2007 I have been with my gf for about a year now. We met through work and after a few months we felt a special connection. She means a lot to me. We have had talks about engagement but we are both young so I want to wait and see how things pan out. The situation is she lives 20 minutes away. She has classes and other activites that take up msot her time and weekends she works both days about all day. I take morning classes and work 40 to 5o hours a week. I recently took a new job with different hours and better pay in hopes of getting to see her more. Job hasn't started yet finishing 2 weeks out at old job but don't think it will change anything. I'll probably just end up working at both. They way it is now is I see her maybe 2 hours a week after she gets off work and during the week we are only able to text because she lives out in the boonies with no service. She never seems to want to actually talk on the phone anyway. Which seems odd to me. Not to mention when we have spent time we have fought this past month. I think shes the one but this rela is very stressful. College being a new world and most of my friends moving away I must admit I'm rather lonely. So, I try to fill the void with working more or I'll think to much and get down. Feels a little pathetic. Any ideas/suggestions? The plan was for both of us to transfer to a 4 year and move in together but nothings set in stone or no idea if that will happen. So, the way it is now will last till summer. Thanks all, Kyle
Sooshaboo Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 U both seem to be very busy with your own lives, ive got to say though that as long as u spend evenings together, that works out just the same as in married life. BUT that obviously means that one of us will have to stay over at ones house or maybe even move in together. also i picked up that she doesnt want to talk to u on the phone much means maybe she isnt that interested, since u dont get to see each other much then ud expect her to look forward to some sort of communication, right? Id stay patient for now, as she doesnt seem too eager to sacrifice things for you just yet then u should consider whether it is really serious for both of u.
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