shadowplay Posted September 27, 2007 Posted September 27, 2007 Last night I was talking on im with my bf and he said something I wasn't sure what to make of. We're in a LDR (3 months now) and I said to him "it's too bad we live so far apart." Then he said "Yeah, I can really understand why people live in the same general city....the same apartment even." Was this a hint that he might want to live with me at some point?
Star Gazer Posted September 27, 2007 Posted September 27, 2007 Possibly. On the other hand, it could mean, "Because we don't live even in the same city, I don't see this relationship lasting."
Author shadowplay Posted September 27, 2007 Author Posted September 27, 2007 ^Well, for what it's worth he knows that I'm moving to his city in a few months. (I've planned this move for awhile before I met him)
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 27, 2007 Posted September 27, 2007 Sounds more like a general observation to me.
Poboy Posted September 27, 2007 Posted September 27, 2007 ^Well, for what it's worth he knows that I'm moving to his city in a few months. (I've planned this move for awhile before I met him) looks like a good hint to me
Sleek Geek Posted September 27, 2007 Posted September 27, 2007 Have you guys ever talked about accomodations for when you would be moving to his city? Would you like for you two to live together? It seems to me like the topic is easy to bring up. Either do it straightfowrdly: "i'm wondering if I should find a place of my own or if we should consider living together" or underhanded: "so what's the rental situation in your city? I need to start looking for a place!" Either way, you certainly need to talk about it. I can see advantages to both options. Personnally, since you are new to the city, I would prefer living on my own as a way to establish my own lifestyle and my own circle of friends in the new city (so as to not feel to dependant on a bf). Have you ever moved? If not, let me tell you, the first three months can be rocky and it might take its toll on a relationship. At the same time, moving in with him gives you that zone of comfort one really craves when moving away. I loved living with my ex-boyfriend. Frankly, he was much easier to live with then any roomate could ever be (and so much cuddlier too). Either way... you see... this is a decision you two can talk about together.
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