gsusisking Posted September 27, 2007 Posted September 27, 2007 There was this guy I liked. We'll I recently checked his myspace and I think he's single!!!! I want to talk to him. Basically, I meet him where he works and the minute we made eye contact 'sparks flew' : P Anyway, so I wrote him a letter saying that if he didn't have a girl friend then I'd love to talk or something, and I had my little sister and mom deliver the letter to him (I know that probably wasn't a good idea, but thats beside the point : P ) anyway, I soon found his myspace and saw that he was TAKEN! We'll that explained why I never got a response back b/c I even left him my number and myspace url. Anyway, I was just recently on his page and all the pics of he and his girl are off his page!! I'm pretty sure this means his single!!!!! So here are my questions: 1. Am I probably correct to think that if you REMOVE pics of your bf/gf, it probably means your single? 2. If you were this guy, we didn't know each other very well but we definitely had some chemistry the few times we saw each other, would you like if I contacted you on your myspace, out of the blue with something like "hey, whats up," or something? 3. How can I write to him without seeming 'creepy' I mean I want to get a response not have him thinking "God, won't she leave me alone!" : P 4. How can I make it so it's not akward, since he got that letter months ago, I want to do this right! Help me out here people!! : ) Thank you so much!!!!
Road Rage Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 Answers 1 Yes, but maybe they are having a big fight. Many break up and then get back together. 2 Yes 3 Keep it really short 4 "hey, what`s up" should do But there should be a lot of guys out there so don`t get too hung up on him:)
NYCmitch25 Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 There was this guy I liked. We'll I recently checked his myspace and I think he's single!!!! I want to talk to him. Basically, I meet him where he works and the minute we made eye contact 'sparks flew' : P Anyway, so I wrote him a letter saying that if he didn't have a girl friend then I'd love to talk or something, and I had my little sister and mom deliver the letter to him (I know that probably wasn't a good idea, but thats beside the point : P ) anyway, I soon found his myspace and saw that he was TAKEN! We'll that explained why I never got a response back b/c I even left him my number and myspace url. Anyway, I was just recently on his page and all the pics of he and his girl are off his page!! I'm pretty sure this means his single!!!!! So here are my questions: 1. Am I probably correct to think that if you REMOVE pics of your bf/gf, it probably means your single? 2. If you were this guy, we didn't know each other very well but we definitely had some chemistry the few times we saw each other, would you like if I contacted you on your myspace, out of the blue with something like "hey, whats up," or something? 3. How can I write to him without seeming 'creepy' I mean I want to get a response not have him thinking "God, won't she leave me alone!" : P 4. How can I make it so it's not akward, since he got that letter months ago, I want to do this right! Help me out here people!! : ) Thank you so much!!!! I would write him a 15 page diatribe on how the two of you are inexorably connected, be sure to be long winded like you've known him for years, give details that only a stalker would know, and be sure to sign it in blood as a nice personal touch. That should do it..</sarcasm> . Your previous attempt wasn't very good, actually it was piss poor... Now anytime you talk to him he'll know why you are before you tell him. So don't. What does he do, maybe you can just ask him for some kind of advice or something that he knows about. If he's into computers, ask him how to post on a forum or something; use it as a springboard to show how fun/outgoing and interesting You are. Be confident, don't look like he's the reason you as talking to him. Find out about what he has been upto, tell him you should hang and catch up. In short my suggestion is to be coy and take it slow, the bigger fish are always harder to catch.
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