iceknite Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 how do I know if a girl likes me or if she thinks I'm cute/hot? I know if she stares at me then she might like me but I want more than one indication that she likes me. And if I find out that a girl likes me, how do I "pick her up" or how do i pick up a girl that doesnt neccesarilly like me but that I like?
CaliGuy Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 how do I know if a girl likes me or if she thinks I'm cute/hot? I know if she stares at me then she might like me but I want more than one indication that she likes me. And if I find out that a girl likes me, how do I "pick her up" or how do i pick up a girl that doesnt neccesarilly like me but that I like? There are many indicators. If she makes eye contact then shys away and smiles, that's a good sign. Generally speaking, if a woman smiles at you often that's an indication she's interested in you in one fashion or another. If she doesn't smile at you nor makes eye contact, she is generally not interested. If she's shy she'll look away a lot but you'll notice her looking at you. For the most part, you're going to have to build up the confidence and self-esteem on your own to approach someone you are interested in and start up a conversation. Understand you'll probably get shot down occasionally but keep practicing. The only way to overcome your fears is to face them head on.
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 how do I know if a girl likes me or if she thinks I'm cute/hot? I know if she stares at me then she might like me but I want more than one indication that she likes me. And if I find out that a girl likes me, how do I "pick her up" or how do i pick up a girl that doesnt neccesarilly like me but that I like? You pick up groceries not woman. Treat her like a person and be sincere and you will figure it out. Then ask her out.
AngelsFan09 Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 Now the question is, ARE YOU INTERESTED IN HER? If so, why don't you approach her? Or is it an ego thing (yeah, she's into me.. I'm the man) and you don't want to put yourself out there to get rejected if she doens't like you. If you're feeling her, you should just approach her. If not, if it's just curiosity, then I don't what you should do. Find out how she is with other guys (don't stalk her) and see if she's interacting with other guys like she is with you.
Green Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 Theres books on how to pick up women go read one. First off learn to be confident and aproach and converse with women whether or not you think they like you, The question is do you like them. Second even if you knew for a fact some girl looked at you and did like you she may not like you anymore once you go over and talk to her so you might as well go over and have a fun flirty conversation. Finaly depending on the situation you can either take her on a date right there and then "hey lets get som coffee" or say something like "I realy enjoyed talking to you" then hand her a piece of paper or whatever to get her number. Obviously if she wasnt smiling or into your conversation bets are shes not into you and it would be pointless to ask for the number, but air on the side of optomisim if she gigled or even responded to you I would just try to escalate things to the next level. Remember just use common sense be posotive, dont be boring try to talk about something cool and interesting, open ended questions, if your funny be funny, and if she earned it flirt back show her u r interested or what ever.
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