SouthernT Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 Ok I need honest opinions here. (guys & girls) Is it ever a good idea for a woman to initiate the big "talk" about wanting to start a relationship with a man that she has been casually seeing? Is it best to let the man bring up this issue on HIS timetable? Or is better for the woman to bring it up? I've always heard that it's not a good thing to do but a couple of guys that I've talked to said they ended up being in their current relationship because the girl openned up and told him how she felt and what she wanted....
Trialbyfire Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 If it's what you want from someone, ask. If he's a runner, he'll dash and in so many ways the sooner, the better. Same thing holds true if you reverse the genders. Better to be upfront than to play games. I recall having this discussion with one guy and he agreed but did dance around the issue a bit, enough for the cautionary alarm bells to go off. In the end, it turns out there was good reason why they did go off.
Jilly10340 Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 If you're wanting a serious relationship with him, then go ahead and have the talk. If he runs, then let him go because what's the point of keeping him around if he's not into the kind of relationship you want?
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