alwayshurt Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 Hi everybody, Many of us are here grieving for what we lost and trying to heal our wounds. Certainly we get many good advices and above all support. Thanks to all for this. But what really hurts is that at the end of the day we are alone because, frankly speaking, our friends after a while don’t want to listen to our crying anymore. It becomes so boring for them and I believe it is understandable. Or perhaps we, ourselves, don’t want to share our sufferings with people that have happy lives (at the moment). I found it very annoying after a while to speak about the same thing over and over again to my friends. But that’s the way I feel. I need to take it out of my chest. Unless you converse to somebody with similar situation, you won’t get listened as instead happens in this site. So I was thinking why don’t we make a group and meet in person. Talking and listen to each other while finding the reason to also have some fun may speed up the healing process and create opportunities to make new friends who share the same values and vision of life. If you live in the Toronto area and you like to consider my idea post a reply. We will find a place to meet and start from there. What you say?
amaysngrace Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 I think meeting in person is discouraged here although I'm not sure? I don't understand something...are you organizing a real-live pity party? Or did I read that wrong?
Author alwayshurt Posted September 26, 2007 Author Posted September 26, 2007 I don't agree. I don't think it has to be discouraging. Think about it. It all depends how you interprete it. I just see it as an opportunity to meet new people having something in common. It is not a pitty party that I am trying to organize but I think that we all need some distraction now more that ever to get our minds distracted from what it is hurting now. It could be a way to help all of us moving on and start living again like we used to.
amaysngrace Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 These boards can offer support. There are many who can relate to what you're going through if you share your story. But meeting in real life is discouraged, I think.
Author alwayshurt Posted September 26, 2007 Author Posted September 26, 2007 well, it is your opinion and I respect it. Thing is that it can also be discouraging talking all the time to a PC monitor. Ciao
amaysngrace Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 well, it is your opinion and I respect it. Thing is that it can also be discouraging talking all the time to a PC monitor. Ciao It's not my opinion, I think it's a rule. But if you want to plan a gathering then go for it. I was just trying to give you a head's up.
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