phillyndy Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 So I'm out of town (in Austin) on business and went out to do what you're supposed to do when you're visiting a new city - get laid! Maybe it has something to do with jet lag, but I seem to have forgotten how to meet people cold, and I'm interested to hear how you all might have handled the following situations/opportunities that I found myself in and subsequently blew. 1. A beautiful girl comes out of the bathroom with toilet paper stuck on her heel. This was a college bar with lots of drunk guys hitting on her. Not wanting to come across as another drunk guy hitting on her, I politely tapped her on her shoulder, gestured to her feet and smiled. I didn't strike up a conversation and of course, I didn't get laid. What would have been a good line to come with in that uses the toilet paper as a starting point, but ultimately translates into a real conversation... 2. At the same bar, two more beautiful women are getting hit on by an incredibly drunk patron. He literally tries to pick one of the girls up off the floor and a bouncer had to come over and intervene. But the bouncer didn't throw his a$$ out, so they were still putting up with this guy. I probably should have gone over there and interjected myself in some way, but how to do it coolly? 3. A group of hot girls at an outdoor venue. Their "leader" was getting hit on by, dare I say it, another drunk guy. This guy was trying to make her swing dance with a drink in her hand - she very clearly wasn't into it. Anyway, the real cute girl was along the wall laughing at and being embarrased for her friend. How should I best have struck up a conversation with her?
Lishy Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 Well ... If you was in the bar by yourself you are at a loss to start with! I would never even talk to a guy who went into a bar alone ..... freaky! No way should you intervene and try to act like superman with a load of drunk guys - Imagine if they put you on the floor, you wouldnt get laid then either! Forget about getting laid as it will shine out of you and make you look like a sexual predator (what a turn off) and just have fun and stop stressing about sex! Ps .... are you married?
Author phillyndy Posted September 25, 2007 Author Posted September 25, 2007 Bah humbug! I think we come from different scenes - I'm 2 years out of college - going to a downtown bar alone is definitely a strike against you, but it's hardly creepy! And if I were married, I'd be posting this in the sub-forum... I'm just out of my comfort zone without friends and familiar faces.
Woggle Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 I used to go out alone all the time and I had no sinister intentions so going to a bar alone is no big deal. I would just be myself and talk to a woman like she is any other person instead of trying an act. You would be surprised at how well being natural works.
Lishy Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 Yeah what Woggle says ...... Only I stand by the fact that if a guy came up to me at a bar and he was by himself I would say seeya later pretty quick IF it was clear he had sexual intentions! OP you need to chill and stop trying to save the damsels in distress!
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