goomstooms Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 I met a really nice gentleman about 2 years ago at a wedding. There he started noticing me and looking at me and turning away really fast. He had his sister (who's a close friend of mine) ask me all sorts of questions she wouldn't normall ask(ie. if I remember him, if I have a bf, why kind of guy I want to marry, etc.). So then I called him about a month afterwards and we talked a lot. Then in Jan. 2006, his father passed away. I went to the visitation at the cemetery and there he looked at me and turned away a couple of times and when I went to hug him, he didn't let go. I also went to the funeral for his father and he did all the above-mentioned things. And afterwards, his mom invited everyone who attended to lunch and he did the same things as well. About two months after the funeral, there was a memorial service held for his dad and the same things happened. I called him about a month afterwards and he said, "I'm in a meeting right now. Can you call me back later?" And I called him two months after that and he said "I'm at work right now. And you called me at a really bad time. Can you call me back later?" Then after I hung up I sent him an apologetic text message. Recently, I saw his mom and his sister at a party his aunt threw for the welcoming of her grandson and there his mom kept on hugging me(she has never done this before) and his sister kept on asking me if I am applying to all the local pharmacy schools since her brother is coming home from NY. What is going on?? Please help! Thank you in advance for answering my question.
norajane Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 You have never actually had a conversation with this man since before Jan of 2006? Has he ever called you any of those times when you called and he couldn't talk? Has he ever called you on his own? If you haven't had a real conversation in over a year, maybe you need to do that before wondering what all these other things might mean.
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