loverboy69 Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 Hi. I'm a gay male in my late 20's. I have a new gay coworker who is very smart, funny and witty to our staff. The problem is, he's not that way to me. Everytime he is around me, he freezes up, drops what's in his hands, avoids eye contact and acts otherwise extremely nervous. We both are good looking and we both dress well. Although I'm normally a bit reserved, I would like to break down the walls that surround this guy. He's always within my vicinity. He'll talk to anyone and everyone even if they're right next to me, but again, avoids any verbal or visual contact with me. As many gay guys do, he has his share of female groupies. I feel I'm starting to learn his game and the numerous quick glances and turn aways give him away. I'm really starting to like him. It's been gradually getting more intense inside me as the days go on. Most of my gay relationships with men have been overly sexual and ultimately unsatisfying. This time, I find myself liking this guy for lots of other qualities and I don't want to miss my chance. I am aware however that office romance treads on thin ice and the negative ramifications can be significant. On the flip side, so many of us young professionals spend so much of our time in the office that sometimes our coworkers naturally become the targets of our ever growing affections. What is the best way to break the ice with a shy gay male without coming across over-bearing and/or too obvious? Anyone with similar experiences, please share. Thanks.
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