kcity3 Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Im way over this girl but I have a lot of unanswered questions with this 1. I met this girl thru a friend and for 3 weeks she is gushing about how perfect I am and how she loves me and all this.We have all these inside jokes and then all of a sudden randomly she calls me and tells me that her parents say they dont like us being together and we cant be together. I dont get to talk to her much when she tells me this becuz she is on the other phone with this guy whos her best friend and hes drunk so she tells me that she will try to call me if she can help him out.She pinky promises that she will call me later. She ended up never calling me again.I called her the next day and she sounded very irritated saying "Im trying to do my homework!" I was nice and tried to just brush it off and then see what would happen.However 4 days later her friend sends me a message saying that she is getting married to some other guy! So I question her about it the very next day on AIM(she never picked up the phone when i tried to call her from then on) and she said she was going to but she said they ended it for good.However she emails me the next day saying stuff like 'Im getting married,and not to you' and Im sitting here like God what did I do? It was so random it hit me really hard we were both so in love and then I just found out recently that she thought I was crazy and that she was freaked out by me the whole time.But I constantly was asking her if everything was okay and she said yes so I thought we were on the same page. Like basically what Im trying to figure out is why would a girl tell you that she loves you and be all into you for 3 weeks and then randomly screw you over to go marry some other dude?And I really wish I knew about it earlier cuz it screwed a lot of things up for me Im still trying to work some stuff out but it really hurt at the time and now Ive realized that this girl never loved me. How can I trust any other girl that tells me she loves me now?She had me so convinced.
Spinderella Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 3 weeks isnt very long to get to know someone, and I dont think you can believe anyone who thinks they love you after three weeks. Not that they are lying neccessarily but that they dont know what love is and have confused it with something else. Same goes for you, and I doubt that what you felt for her was love, but infatuation or something. Get to know someone a bit better next time, and move a little more slowly.
Author kcity3 Posted September 24, 2007 Author Posted September 24, 2007 well it wasnt 3 weeks it was almost a month but yeah anyways I will admit I rushed it.Still she was saying all this we had all these inside jokes and what not like we really got along well.It all happened so fast.And what i dont get is that if she thought i was crazy then why didnt she tell me in the beginning why did she wait until all the damage was done the sooner she couldve told me the better trust me on that 1.
Spinderella Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 I dont know why she wasnt more direct with you, but I suppose it would be a bit insulting to tell someone you thought they were crazy. I know its abit hurtful, but because it was only 3-4 weeks, then she kind of did tell you pretty quickly that it was over. Find someone who doesnt think you are crazy, take things slowly and move on. Thats all you can do.
bloodaye Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 If the "marriage" thing is true,then it sounds to me like she was just trying to get a little 'jiggy jiggy" b4 she takes the plunge,chicks will say anything to you without remorse to get what they want,not all,but the majority,they can be very manipulative,cause they know how us guys can be and they play on it.Dude if she is like this,let her screw over her new husband,and let him come here and post a thread on how this skank messed him up.Dont fool urself,people like her are not happy people they are very disgruntled and insecure,ur better off.
LakesideDream Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 OMG! She pinky promised and blew you off? Well that's it then, how could you ever trust someone who blew off a pinky promise? Don't waste anymore time! Three weeks is enough time to know everything you need to know about her, broken pinky promises and all.
Author kcity3 Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 Mods please delete this thread.Thank you
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