Woggle Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Here is my view on some issues. A lot of people here talk about sexual morality when really morality is not about sex. If people want they should have sex with as many people as they want in what ever way they want. Have sex with other women, other men and as many combinations as you can think of. I am also fine with any type of kinky sex, s&m and open relationships. The only thing I am big on is honesty. Do whatever you want but make sure all parties involved know what they are getting into and don't deceive anybody. Don't have a spouse or a partner at home who thinks you are loving and faithful while you are out screwing people behind their back. Don't be an accessory to a cheater betraying their spouse and don't mislead somebody into thinking your intentions are something other than what they are. To me it is all about how you treat others. If I were single and dating a woman I would not care if she slept with 100 guys as long as she never cheated and never was an OW.
KittenMoon Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Unfortunately, sex really isn't just about getting off. If our society was accepting of sex anywhere, anytime, in any fashion, with anyone, it probably wouldn't happen half as much as it happens now! Deception, being adventurous, going against the grain- for a lot of people, much of the pleasure of sex comes from these things.
Road Rage Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Sex has nothing to do with honesty and everything to do with egoism.
reboot Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Absolutely, I also don't think it all boils down to "morals". It's about being upfront and truthful. As long as two people agree on such issues, then whatever they do is pretty much ok. Unfortunately, when two people get "married", usually at least one of them believes in the "forsaking all others" part.
Trialbyfire Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Sex has nothing to do with honesty and everything to do with egoism. Bang on...per se... Not all but many of the people I've observed who've slept around to high numbers have either used sex as a means to a goal or need the ego stroke.
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