googlezap Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 When girl asks to come see your place(around nighttime), does it always mean she wants sex?
shoesies05 Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 uhm- depends on the girl. but probably for the most part yea. but then, i dont always mean that. Sometimes i just want to hang out and see what his place is like.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Not always. Sometimes they do that to find out more about you. You can tell a lot about a person's place by the way they keep it.
Woggle Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Sometimes they do it to find out more about a guy. When she is over she is probably scoping every inch of your place in order to find out what type of guy you are.
Author googlezap Posted September 24, 2007 Author Posted September 24, 2007 does it matter if it's at night (say after a date)?
Cobra_X30 Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 When girl asks to come see your place(around nighttime), does it always mean she wants sex? Yes. It's pretty much a known fact!
2sunny Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 it means she wants insight into your priorities - the way you live - if you are tidy or messy etc.
reboot Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 That's a pretty big assumption to make. Maybe they do, maybe they don't, maybe they want to give you the opportunity to convince them. I seem to remember from back in my single days (100 or so years ago) that most girls would usually let you know what they wanted, one way or the other. Just coming to your "pad" isn't saying "f*&% me please". Sorry.
curiousnycgirl Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 The only time I ever asked to go back to a guy's place I was trying to find out more about him. He had been pursuing me, heavily, but was much older than me, and I was concerned he might be married. Figured if he took me to his house, I would know. He did and he wasn't married. We were FWB for 8 years.
stillafool Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 I think she wants to see your place to see if a woman is living there. If she comes at night she knows that (this woman)would be home during that time and if you said no to her she'd have her answer.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Sometimes they do it to find out more about a guy. When she is over she is probably scoping every inch of your place in order to find out what type of guy you are. i would say this is right on, and only this. the assumption that a girl wants sex just because she wants to see where you live is a pretty dangerous one.
Trialbyfire Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 If I'm not prepared to put out, I won't go to a guy's place. It's a given...
Author googlezap Posted September 25, 2007 Author Posted September 25, 2007 Hmm, it seems like there are two diverging views on the subject. But if she's already seen your place (albiet you moved to a new apartment) and then wants to come visit again, does that change anything?
norajane Posted September 25, 2007 Posted September 25, 2007 Hmm, it seems like there are two diverging views on the subject. But if she's already seen your place (albiet you moved to a new apartment) and then wants to come visit again, does that change anything? Why? Are you afraid you missed out on some sex because she invited herself up and you didn't make a move?
daphne Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 I don't go to a guy's place to have sex. I won't go if I don't feel like he can deal with that. I go to see how he lives, so I can make up my mind if I want to have sex with him.
Jilly10340 Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 Depends how long I've been dating him....if it's in the first few dates...it means I just want to make out with him
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