that thing about confidence...IT'S TRUE!!

[Beatnik]

OMG awhile ago I started noticing a really hot, smart girl at my school was noticing me, and it really charged my self-esteem and confidence level, now its crazy! I was always a shy, quiet guy, but this week I have been walking the halls of my school with my head up and a smile on my face, and the girls are REALLY noticing. I always thought I was ugly and thats why girls didn't notice me much, but now I know, its confidence. I am getting hi's left and right from girls I rarely, if ever, talk too and i'm not talking average girls, I'm talking some really gorgeous girls.

 

So take my advice guys, its confidence all the way!

[Tony T]

Your confidence may be up but your attitude is lacking. You will find that many of those average looking girls you don't notice anymore make much better dates and much better companions that some of those great looking ones.

 

But I do agree that confidence is a great thing to have in any area of your life.

[Beatnik]

Oh yeah I agree totally, in fact there are many gorgeous girls in my school that I would never date because I can't stand their personality. I still notice those girls anyway, my "spectrum" of attractivness is quiet "wider" than most guys'.

[yes]

i think having handsome guys or pretty girls pay attention to you is just something pleasant to happen,- doesn't mean you'd necessarily go for them.

 

and yes, i also notice that on days when i feel good & positive & confident (but not overly), i get more attention.

 

2 cents,

-yes

[Beatnik]

Hey Tony on a side note, I asked that girl I wrote about earlier out and she said yes!!!

[sweetnblonde307]

I have a confidence problem which I am working on improving how I feel about myself. My boyfriend of 10 months thinks I am beautiful and sexy but I sometimes have a hard time feeling that way about myself. Yes I am a bit overweight but he has never said anything but positive things about how he feels about me and how he sees me.