bk2307 Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Maybe somebody will have some insight on this situation... I went out on Friday night and met a guy at a bar. He was really nice and we had a lot in common. We talked for at least an hour. We exchanged numbers and he told me to call him so that we could watch a football game together on Saturday. When we left the bar, he kissed me. I called him Saturday afternoon and left a message and have not heard back yet. I know it could be a lot of things, but do you think he is just not interested? I found out that my friend talked to his friend and mentioned that I recently got out of a pretty long relationship, so I hope that didn't change his mind.
Curmudgeon Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 I found out that my friend talked to his friend and mentioned that I recently got out of a pretty long relationship, so I hope that didn't change his mind. It would certainly change mine. The last thing I would ever want to be (again) is someone else's rebound.
MystifiedByMen Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 I don't think it's your friends place to tell him that. I would have a talk with your friend and tell him/her to keep their mouth shut about your personal life. Just what I think.
mental_traveller Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 It's sunday, relax. Now if he hasn't called by Wednesday, then he probably isn't into you. But expecting a call within 24 hours if verging on bunny boiler territory.
xsupermanx22 Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 It's sunday, relax. Now if he hasn't called by Wednesday, then he probably isn't into you. But expecting a call within 24 hours if verging on bunny boiler territory. agreed i agree with the wed. thing
Krytie TV Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 As a guy, I say screw him. If he gave you his number for plans for Saturday and didn't even return a call, you bring it allllll on yourself by lingering for this guy. Forget him now or suffer the consequences.
shoesies05 Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 I don't think it's your friends place to tell him that. I would have a talk with your friend and tell him/her to keep their mouth shut about your personal life. Just what I think. I'm not a guy- but i deff. agree with this.
birdie Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 As a guy, I say screw him. If he gave you his number for plans for Saturday and didn't even return a call, you bring it allllll on yourself by lingering for this guy. Forget him now or suffer the consequences. agree. maybe he is interested but unreliable anyway and can't be bothered to make the effort. let him go
Cobra_X30 Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 If I like a girl... I call her, even if its to cancel or reschedule!
uniqueone Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 It's sunday, relax. Now if he hasn't called by Wednesday, then he probably isn't into you. But expecting a call within 24 hours if verging on bunny boiler territory. So expecting a guy to follow through on what he says makes a woman a bunny boiler, huh? Do you realize how ridiculous those rules sound? And even worse...why are women buying into it?
uniqueone Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 It's sunday, relax. Now if he hasn't called by Wednesday, then he probably isn't into you. But expecting a call within 24 hours if verging on bunny boiler territory. So expecting a guy to follow through on what he says makes a woman a bunny boiler, huh? Do you realize how ridiculous those rules sound? And even worse...why are women buying into it?
FrequentFlyer Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 I was drunk when I made those plans with you, sorry! Call you Wednesday! If you're interested in seeing him, call him one more time and say "hey...what happened? I had my pom-poms ready!"
Trimmer Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 We exchanged numbers and he told me to call him so that we could watch a football game together on Saturday.... It's sunday, relax. Now if he hasn't called by Wednesday, then he probably isn't into you. But expecting a call within 24 hours if verging on bunny boiler territory. Hoping for him to follow up on a plan he specifically initiated does not verge into bunny boiler territory. I agree, your "friend" shouldn't be sharing personal information about you.
Author bk2307 Posted September 24, 2007 Author Posted September 24, 2007 Yeah my friend is an idiot. I would yell at him but he's also the one who got me started talking to the guy in the first place. I thought I would try to call just one more time to see if he's up for doing something for the weekend, just in case he's playing that game where you can't call for so many days. But I do have a bad feeling it's the ex thing because he seemed pretty into me when we left the bar. It's been over a month now and I've been fine for a few weeks, so I would hope I'm allowed to date again! Do you think it would make any difference if I call to let him know I'd like to see him again?
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