charliepapa Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Like some opinion. Is there something wrong with me that I don't know anything about? without anyone knowing my personality. I am not unattractive and have a good social life but it seems though I cant find a date, the most I have had in the last six months is two internet dates. It does not help also that I am the oldest in my family am the only single cousin amongst 20 cousins. I feel like such a leper and am trying to avoid my family. Of course I am shy which does not help. Only ever dated one woman for a month about 7 months ago. It also does not help that I had to meet my brothers girlfriends family and had to be all smiles despite the fact that it was tearing me up inside and of course my sister got married three months ago an was about the only singe person there. My brother is also the typical charismatic amoral person who women just fall over themselves to be with. My sister has also tried to set up him up with women and no-one has done that for me he has also slept with one of them. My brother and I are as close physically as non-twins can get and in age. Just feeling very lonely at the moment and despite being busy if I stop for even a moment the feelings crop up. Thanks Paul
MystifiedByMen Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 How old are you? I am at the age where I'm finding that a lot of people are getting married and sometimes I feel as though something may be wrong with me too. Then I realize that I'm not going to just settle because I'm 26 because everyone else is. Your brother probably asked your sis for hookups. Have you ever? Just say hey sis, know anybody that's cute? Hook me up!! Also, when you're out, get out there and talk to the hotties! Get over the shyness. Everyone gets rejected so don't let that fear stop you. I think you may feel this way because at the moment, everyone is in a relationship and your not. It happens at different times with everyone. Don't think that something is wrong with you. People are waiting a lot longer to settle these days too. It's totally normal and more common to be older and unattached. Fewer people are getting married, therfore the divorce rate is going down which is a good thing! I know I just babbled, so I hope this helps a little!
Author charliepapa Posted September 24, 2007 Author Posted September 24, 2007 33. As for my sisters friends now they are all hooked up and I would not want to be with them any way because I fear her, the thought would have been nice though the fact that someone else would like me to be involved with one of their friends. My brother never needs to ask, they just fall at his feet, and my sister likes my brother mush more than I. I guess it appears that no woman wants anything to do with me. and I am way to fussy, my standards are to high and the women I want would not have anything to do with me because it would be beneath them. Paul
MystifiedByMen Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Hi Paul, why do you fear your sisters friend? I would ask your sis to set you up on a date. nothing more. See where it goes. You have to put yourself out there when if comes to dating or you really wont get anywhere. No need to fear anyone because deep down they are nervous too. Everyone gets rejected and everyone has bad days. You must act confident too. Woman are not attracted to guys who are not. Even if you have to fake it till you make it!
Author charliepapa Posted September 24, 2007 Author Posted September 24, 2007 I am not terrified of my sisters friend. I am terrified of my sister. We have never particularly got along and would not have anything to do with each other if we were not family - two strong willed opinionated people ( I guess that is why I am still single) . None of her friends are available now anyway and I am sort of friends with them anyway.
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