Alsok Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 I dont know whats wrong with me. Ive been with my g/f for 3 years and I feel very lonely and upset a lot. I dont think she loves me the way I love her. When she comes home from work she turns the tv on and watches it for hours until she goes to bed.(like 6 or 7) This is everyday when she wakes up the tv comes on when she comes home it is on. And she doesnt speak to me while watching tv and stupid tivo makes it so theres no commericals. So shes always zoned. I hate the tv...but then again when we didnt have cable it was computer games. Why does she want to block me out???? She doesnt want to do anything with me. I ask her all the time to hang out with me nothing big just take a walk or a card game and she says shes watching tv. But let one of her friends call and shes out the door at the drop of a hat. She makes me feel boring and lame, I feel stupid for being jealous and craving affection I cant help it the more she pulls away the more I want. Last night I came home early from work and deleted all her saved shows I was so mad...I know its childish but it felt good to do it. Like REALLY good..I dont feel good now..now she hates me even more she broke all of my cigarettes...its all good though I fixed them. I dont know how to fix our relationship though..Any advice?
gman0hsev Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 Maybe she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore and is not quite sure how to tell you. I would suggest either one telling her how you feel, or two go out with friends of your own. But either way your relationship is not going in a good direction....
Pyro Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 That was definitely a childish move on your part. Apologize to her about that and don't do it again. Thats not going to help your cause in the least bit. All the things that you just told us you should be talking to her about. Communication is vital to a successful relationship. She is in the comfort stage of the relationship. It happens to alot of LTR's. Things start to be taken for granted. All I can say is talk to her and let her know how you feel.
Illicit Angel Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 Have you tried talking to her and explaining how you feel, like she isn't even intrested? This will make you feel boring and lame. Talk to her about maybe making time nxt wk to do something together ... something you know she enjoy's. Give a specific time and stick with it, and talk about it before she reads the t.v guide! You could try taking your attention away from her. Find other things to occupy you. She probably won't notice at first, but eventually she will stop and ask you why you no longer give her attention ....... Backing off might just give her the space she obviously needs. We all feel like zoning out sometimes, but all the time is not good for a relationship.
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