Jinnah Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 The definition of morals: principles or habits with respect to right or wrong behavior or conduct. I believe that no one has the right to judge us on being the OW or accuse any of us of not having morals. Clearly they have no morals themselves or they would not behave in an accusatory manner toward those who's shoes they have not walked in (especially when they have never been OW). Judging others, insulting others, and trying to make others feel ashamed is not moral behavior either becauase it is WRONG. Please don't let those posts steer you away from reaching out for our support... Foereverchanged, I understand your point, but I do not believe anyone was having a "holier than thou" attitude as you suggest. If someone asks the general public for advice, the responders have the right to share their opinion. That does not mean they are being judgemental or condemning. They do have the right to tell the OP that they are doing something wrong if they believe that to be the case. Otherwise, the advice on here would be useless b/c it would just be candy-coated "telling you what you want to hear advice"... what's the point of that? If someone is clearly wrong, they should be told so. In no way does that meant that the responder thinks they are perfect and never do wrong.
Lyssa Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 I am NOT claiming empathy and certainly NOT from you or ANYONE for that matter. I claim empathy for people that come here in a time of crisis. They don't need to hear "your" (as in the general you) baggage spewed the moment they set foot here. It's one thing to debate with someone who is just here posting an opinion I think that's fine if you come here not in distress and want to throw some thoughts around fine, but it is another to HIJACK a thread as certain posters ALWAYS do to spew hatred at people in pain. have some respect for god's sake considering you spend your LIVES on here talking abou people's selfishness and lack of care for others, just for someone who DID NOTHING to you personally. Or get your head checked once and for all because kicking people when they are down says a lot more about YOU than it does them, again you as in the general you not anyone in particular ok? most people who are bitter got stabbed in the back by the people they married, and most people who are bitter on the OP side also got stabbed in the back so stop picking on OP as if they are going to fix your $hitty marriage situation. If you can't even fix it which a lot of you clearly can't which is why you are tied here 24/7 picking fight with hurling insulting names at everyone on this forum, then what do you expect from the people you pick on they are certainly not going to fix you $hitty partners and the mistakes YOU both made to get to where you got. Go home and screw you head on tight and maybe your partner will want to SCREW you instead of the neighbour. And I can make this comment as much as I want because you came here looking for a scarp there you have it, a scrap! a woman turned here for some help and she has to sift throught posts and posts just to be heard, of flat out $$hit from people who clearly have NOTHING better to do IN THEIR LIVES . OMG!! You got that so effing right!!!!! It's funny how when someone says something this good, no one has anything to say. When they do respond to this, it's either totally out of context or more insults. TC, thank you for posting this!!!
OpenBook Posted September 29, 2007 Posted September 29, 2007 OMG!! You got that so effing right!!!!! It's funny how when someone says something this good, no one has anything to say. When they do respond to this, it's either totally out of context or more insults. TC, thank you for posting this!!! Yeah, Tomcat's my hero here on LS.:D:D She's gutsy and a true fighter, in the best sense of the word.
Tomcat33 Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 Hello Texas I tried to type you a response last week since you asked for my advice on how to move on and I did and then the answer dissapeared, not sure what happened let me try again now. Aw thanks ladies for your kind words, you've got to fight for what you beleive in, and if you believe in yourselves you have to fight for that.
Tomcat33 Posted September 30, 2007 Posted September 30, 2007 I'm sorry Texasgirl I have tried three times to post my reply and it just dissapears...I supppose the system does not want me to reply. yet when I type a quick reply like this it accepts it. I give up.
Author TexasSadGirl Posted September 30, 2007 Author Posted September 30, 2007 Thanks Tom Cat Im not sure whats going on with the posting. I posted in the INfidelity Forum also and I got in trouble and lost points .I did not know you could not post twice. Are their rules?? As Im looking for answers wherever I can and wanted the viewpoint of the men who cheat as well
whichwayisup Posted October 1, 2007 Posted October 1, 2007 It means that the posts are being moderated first, then once read by a Mod, they'll be posted.
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