billyhilly1212 Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 ok here goes... i like this girl. ive known her for about 4+ months and have worked with her. i told her that i liked her but she didnt really react much except for saying that i didnt really like her. and that it was all in my head. she is not a girl that guys like like that. i dont know what to think about that. she later says that when people care about her that she just pushes them away. i later find out from her that her boyfriend had cheated on her with two girls. she was crushed. and still is. i talk to her at least 2 times a day. and i dont know what to do. i know that it will takw time for her to trust guys again. is there anything i can do now to help. im also away at college and she is 2000 miles away so seeing her is impossible. i know its right after a messy breakup but is there anyway to tell how she feels about me? im so lost and confused about what to do. i really like her and want to get closer to her. i want to prove to her that not all guys are going to be a-holes (sorry) to her. i will treat her right and everything. also how long do i wait until i push the issue again that i like her. i really want to know how she feels but at this time i dont think its the best time to ask. is there anyway to ask without being so obvious? there is a lot more to the situation that i cant even put into words. i like this girl sooo much that it hurts. i get sad and depressed when she is. i just cant help it. she means so much to me and i just dont get how you can cheat or do anything to this girl. she is amazing. thanks for having a site like this where i can get some things off my chest and hopefully get some advice.
Author billyhilly1212 Posted September 26, 2007 Author Posted September 26, 2007 come on guys... im desperate, what do i do next?
NYCmitch25 Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 come on guys... im desperate, what do i do next? Well, I don't think you are asking the right questions for the forums, you want explicit answers to questions we should really not try to answer. With that being said, put yourself out there, ask her when she think she will be dating again, then hint that you would like to take her to dinner or something to discuss it. Let her talk, see if she is interested or not. However, be prepared for rejection - I don't think she is ready. Sorry. ps. long term relationships are VERY difficult to maintain.
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