billyhilly1212 Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 ok here goes... i like this girl. ive known her for about 4+ months and have worked with her. i told her that i liked her but she didnt really react much except for saying that i didnt really like her. and that it was all in my head. she is not a girl that guys like like that. i dont know what to think about that. she later says that when people care about her that she just pushes them away. i later find out from her that her boyfriend had cheated on her with two girls. she was crushed. and still is. i talk to her at least 2 times a day. and i dont know what to do. i know that it will takw time for her to trust guys again. is there anything i can do now to help. im also away at college and she is 2000 miles away so seeing her is impossible. i know its right after a messy breakup but is there anyway to tell how she feels about me? im so lost and confused about what to do. i really like her and want to get closer to her. i want to prove to her that not all guys are going to be a-holes to her. i will treat her right and everything. also how long do i wait until i push the issue again that i like her. i really want to know how she feels but at this time i dont think its the best time to ask. is there anyway to ask without being so obvious? there is a lot more to the situation that i cant even put into words. i like this girl sooo much that it hurts. i get sad and depressed when she is. i just cant help it. she means so much to me and i just dont get how you can cheat or do anything to this girl. she is amazing. thanks for having a site like this where i can get some things off my chest and hopefully get some advice.
Author billyhilly1212 Posted September 26, 2007 Author Posted September 26, 2007 come guys... im desperate, what do i do?
IrishCarBomb Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 im also away at college and she is 2000 miles away so seeing her is impossible. There's your answer. Seeing her is impossible. Forget about her and focus your attention on someone who isn't 2000 miles away.
Trialbyfire Posted September 26, 2007 Posted September 26, 2007 If someone's not ready after any breakup, regardless of cheating, there's nothing you can do to force the issue. The only thing you can do is to be her friend and help her through rough times but then, you might end up in the friend zone permanently.
Author billyhilly1212 Posted September 26, 2007 Author Posted September 26, 2007 ass far as seeing her... i will like at christmas, and spring break and all summer. its not like ill never see her again. she lives and goes to school in my hometown. so i will see her again.
IrishCarBomb Posted September 28, 2007 Posted September 28, 2007 ass far as seeing her... i will like at christmas, and spring break and all summer. its not like ill never see her again. she lives and goes to school in my hometown. so i will see her again. It doesn't matter that you will see her for 20 minutes 3 times a year, or every third weekend after an odd number of fridays was last month. You live very different lives now, so stop obsessing over this girl and move on with your life. Or keep obsessing over her and be miserable... your choice.
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