dodgerfan Posted September 22, 2007 Posted September 22, 2007 I started dating this girl last october. Things were progressing normally and by early february we had a nice relationship. Out of the blue she tells me there's nothing wrong with me, she doesn't know why she can't be with me, I'm perfect, and I should find happiness with someone else. So I was hurt but moving on and a month later I called her up just to see how she was doing. She was excited to talk and we wind up getting back together. The relationship pretty much picks up where it left off and things kept getting better and better. The day after fathers day at dinner she told me she loved me. I had a hard time responding because I still did not fully trust her but we took it to the next level. At that point any doubts about her and the relationship are put aside and I was officially in love. A month later she took me to Santa Barbara for my birthday and we had a weekend of romance and love, true love birds. On top of the world. Three days after we get back she had to go to Chicago to be a brides maid at her best friends wedding. The day before the wedding she calls me and says "I wish you were here. I love you so much. I was telling all my girlfriends about how perfect you are". When she came back she pulled the same thing on me. She told me that she is in love with me. That I'm perfect and that I deserve to be with someone better. She also said that I am the type of person that she would want to marry and that she needs to see if there is anything else out there before she ties the knot. A month later I am out at a bar and she shows up knowing that I would be there. We hook up and I haven't talked to her since. My problem is that I am in love with a flighty girl. Our relationship was perfect, no fighting, great sex, we're both attractive, active together, outgoing, fun, amazing people. The one problem is that she doesn't want a relationship. Kind of a big problem. Anyway, it's been a month since I've talked to her and I know that she is dating. I am trying to move on but I can't. I go out and meet girls but they don't compare to her. I know that I shouldn't want to be with someone who has commitment issues but I feel like I might not ever meet someone that fits the way she did. So, I have two questions. How do I move on? And do I give her space for a couple more months and then give another call. I feel like I'm a little crazy about all this but I know that she loves me. Oh, and did I mention that her older brother died a few years ago?
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