u_123 Posted September 22, 2007 Posted September 22, 2007 Ok so I'm in college and I met a guy in one of my classes that is pretty cool. I'm a female and I let him know I had a boyfriend I loved and I don't do stuff behind his back. He was cool about it and just wanted to be friends. Anyways, last night he invited me over to have a few drinks and just relax and watch a movie with some other friends. He wound up getting pretty drunk, like slurring his words and kind of swaying, but could still talk. He started saying how I was the perfect girl, how beautiful I was, really kind of obsessive talk about me. I shrugged it up assuming it was the liquor but then he started to talk about more weird stuff. Like he kept talking about how he sometimes dealt small time drugs (I didn't know this when I met him) and how you had to pay "taxes" whenever you went into another's territory. I couldn't get him to elaborate so maybe he was just bull****ting trying to seem tough. And when we were drinking, he told me he was an alcoholic and he had been sober for 10 days, all while taking a shot. I don't know what to make of that. He also loves to talk about how many fights he was in and how he has had 6 DWI's and is on probation for assault which he claims was not his fault. I didn't know any of this! He also went and got a poem book and read some really dark kind of stuff, like he has some serious issues. He told me I was the only one he has ever read this to, all while I was just sitting there nodding and wondering if this was really real. He even asked me "are you afraid of me?" and I said no, and he said good, I'm really just a good guy you know. I texted my boyfriend and had him pick me up and got out of there about 30 minutes after this whole deal all while he was saying "can't you just stay one more hour?". The whole situation was weird and it left me with a bad taste in my mouth. Was this the alcohol talking? Or is this guy just really messed up. I have class with him on Monday and he keeps calling me wanting to hang out again and I don't know what to do. I don't even know if he will remember anything he said. I don't know what to do or what to think of all of this, any input would be appreciated.
Yamaha Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 He was cool about it and just wanted to be friends Word to the wise. Guys do not just want to be friends even if they tell you so. I would keep your distance!!!!!!!
amerikajin Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 The guy's got a history, keep your distance. I think you can meet him in public places but nowhere else. Never alone. He did you a favor by putting you on notice, albeit accidentally.
johan Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 I don't understand the issue completely. It seems like almost nothing about the entire evening was pleasant. Whether it was the alcohol talking or not, I can't see what reason you'd have for spending any more time with him at all. It seems clear to me: you have no need for this guy in your life. And to address the bigger issue, he's seems a bit off his rocker. I'd stay away.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 where was everyone else when he was saying these things to you? you said it was you, him, and some other friends, but you don't mention if they heard him and what they thought, it sounds more like you were alone. if there really were other people there, did they hear it? what do they say about it?
Author u_123 Posted September 23, 2007 Author Posted September 23, 2007 where was everyone else when he was saying these things to you? you said it was you, him, and some other friends, but you don't mention if they heard him and what they thought, it sounds more like you were alone. if there really were other people there, did they hear it? what do they say about it? Most of the people there were pretty drunk, not even sure if anyone really noticed. We were just sitting face to face on a couch on an outer wall.
Liquinn Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Hmm, not really sure, can't help, sorry xD
reboot Posted September 24, 2007 Posted September 24, 2007 Can you say "loser"? Sure, sure you can. </Mr Rogers>
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