Broke up but in a sticky situation

[wezol]

Alright well, me and my girlfriend of a year and 8 months ended it this morning, or well....I ended it. She was over jealous, insecure and never gave me the trust I needed. She would get mad at me for stupid things and wonder why I didn't care how she felt.

For example, I am in the national guard as well as ROTC at my college. There is this girl in my class that my ex doesn't like. Alot of guys thinks shes good looking, I don't. Well she found out that our "platoon leader" wants us all to get together as a class and get to know each other a little seeing as how we all might serve together one day. Well when my ex found out she wasn't happy and got really mad when she came and told me and I just said "so...what?" not thinking anything of it. She leaves and this morning we talk about it and she says that even though I may not like her now, that a year from now I might. Or something along those lines. That is what threw me over the edge and I calmly ended it.

Here comes the sticky situation. 3 months ago we moved in together into an apartment and are both on the lease, her step mom co-signed for us since we are in school. I could MAYBE afford it on my own if I was tight, but she in no way could by herself. What do I do?

[MariaRebecca]

i sort of know how she is feeling.

i'll be honest i can be rather jealous and insecure because of past relationships. but i have been trying lately.

 

you can't answer what she said about liking this other girl because yourself doesn't know.

 

do you honestly like your girlfriend? can't you tell her how much she means to you, help her to fight those insecurities. girls need security. if you give her a chance and help her, she could bring the trust in and be okay with you.

[blueladybird]

Hang on, does she get really really mad? Or do you just have minor arguments?

If you really liked her, wudnt you talk to her about her insecurities and give her another chance?lol.