sofakingmad Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 damm, i never knew that many good looking men lived in philly maybe it would be easier to go after them instead?
Lizzie60 Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 so ... what happened?? Did you finally reached her?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 Yes i did, first of all we made the plan on tuesday night and didn't talk on wednesday at all and today instead of calling after she got off work, she just went straight to the cafe and tried to send me a text message but didnt know I don' have a cell phone. So i'm sitting home and she calls and says she is at the cafe so I'm only ten minutes away so i got up and went down there and met up with her. So she was nice but just didn't turn me on so I won't be calling back. The weirdest things was coming out her mouth like-"My 22 year old brother is coming to stay with me for a month in October and i'm sure we will have a lot of fun" I was like-OK-lol But overall, she was not really for me, her style, and personality. She could be a good friend but that's it
Krytellan Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 So then no seizures or inappropriate uncontrollable verbalizations on anyone's part?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 So then no seizures or inappropriate uncontrollable verbalizations on anyone's part? I could tell I wasn't attracted because I was looking at other girls-lol She would make a perfect indoor friend
shadowplay Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 I could tell I wasn't attracted because I was looking at other girls-lol She would make a perfect indoor friend that's a pretty rude thing to do on a date.
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 My rule is always give someone at least 2 dates before making up my mind. If I don't think I'm into him I at least give him a second chance because he may have been nervous and someone can be more relaxed and make a great second date. Or they could be playing the perfect guy game on date one and you can tell if he is faking it or not by the second. But that's just me!
shadowplay Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 "My 22 year old brother is coming to stay with me for a month in October and i'm sure we will have a lot of fun" what's weird about that? you need to stop being so critical...jeez
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 I could tell I wasn't attracted because I was looking at other girls-lol She would make a perfect indoor friend that's a pretty rude thing to do on a date. I agree never mind the indoor friend comment! I was thinking of many responses to that post but had nothing nice to say so decided to bite my tongue! LOL
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 that's a pretty rude thing to do on a date. It's something men can't control. And I wasn't obvious about it
Lizzie60 Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 It's something men can't control. And I wasn't obvious about it This is something men CAN control... geezzzz You weren't obvious about it.. but unless she was starring at the floor while talking to you... she probably noticed... girls are NOT that dumb you know...
oppath Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 Actually, this summer I got a girls number while on a date. My date didn't realize it at all. Though I think the girl whose number I got (she offered me hers discretely) realized I was on a date, which is why she didn't respond, but...yes, it was rude. It was really inadvertent in the sense that my date and I crashed a table of people and made small talk with them, and everyone was exchanging business cards. I was a jackass and gave the cute girl next to me my card, and she slipped it back to me in my lap with her number on it. It was wrong of me. Wandering eyes though...wandering eyes get noticed. People know when you aren't paying attention to them. I got away with it because my date wasn't paying attention to me.
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 It's something men can't control. And I wasn't obvious about it Hmm let me see I have control over my whole body and what I do, I know I am a woman but I know men do too! That's B*ll Sh*t!! You were on a date so she would be looking at you and would see you looking elsewhere. Obvious or not do you think she was blind?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 Hmm let me see I have control over my whole body and what I do, I know I am a woman but I know men do too! That's B*ll Sh*t!! You were on a date so she would be looking at you and would see you looking elsewhere. Obvious or not do you think she was blind? All I'm saying is if a guy goes on a blind date with someone he is not attracted to, he will notice other attractive girls. But give me some credit, I did walk her home so I could have just said goodnight. I would say the weirdest part of the date was when I first walked up to her at the cafe we agree to go to and she said-"Hi, we can go in here or do you want to go somewhere else?? huh??? Why would I want to go somewhee else???
sofakingmad Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 I would say the weirdest part of the date was when I first walked up to her at the cafe we agree to go to and she said-"Hi, we can go in here or do you want to go somewhere else?? huh??? Why would I want to go somewhee else??? nothing weird about her asking that. she was just being nice.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 nothing weird about her asking that. she was just being nice. I thought it was weird because we both agreed on the place we met in front of. I didn't have any other place in mind
shadowplay Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 nothing weird about her asking that. she was just being nice. I think it's safe to say that he's the weirdo, not her.
sofakingmad Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 I thought it was weird because we both agreed on the place we met in front of. I didn't have any other place in mind well maybe she didn't know you didn't have any other place in mind. or maybe she was just alittle nervous.
shadowplay Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 I thought it was weird because we both agreed on the place we met in front of. I didn't have any other place in mind Why does it really matter? If you'd judge someone so harslhy based on one awkward comment or two then you have serious problems. People say all kinds of awkward things on first dates because they're nervous. Remember that post you made where you said you were visibly shaking because you were so nervous on one date? Well that's a lot more extreme than anything this woman did, yet your date at the time was very nice about it if I remember correctly. Learn some manners and stop being so superficial/dismissive. Your combination of insecurity, self absorption and nastiness is sure to turn women off.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 well maybe she didn't know you didn't have any other place in mind. or maybe she was just alittle nervous. That's what I was thinking. Or maybe she want to walk the streets with a tall sexy man-lol I'm playing around
sofakingmad Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 she really wanted to go back to your place and give you a foot massage. you blew your chance! lol
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 she really wanted to go back to your place and give you a foot massage. you blew your chance! lol No she was talking about another place to go eat
Lizzie60 Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 No she was talking about another place to go eat She wanted to eat... geezz you really 'blew' it...
amber1 Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 Okay DA, honestly stop overanalyzing comments that are completely normal. Also, sometimes the attraction isn't huge on the first date but that doesn't mean that it won't get better on the second. Ask her out again and if it doesn't work out then give up on it. Aren't you trying to get to a second date with someone by age 33 or something? (I read something like that in one of your other posts). And please stop this 'indoor friend' crap, it's stupid. If you keep being so critical about people you will end up completely alone.
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