DateAnalyzer Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 just could use some last minute tips before I go on the date tomorrow, thanks a lot. More of what NOT TO DO on a date
mattie2007 Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 are you male or female? what are you going to wear?
Lyssa Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 From what I have been reading on you - try not to be yourself....
Lyssa Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 Try to enjoy the whole date - don't cringe if you don't like the way she laughs (are you on the date with that girl, btw?)... Pull out the chair for her... etc.. you know - be a gentleman... Have fun!!!
Lizzie60 Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 DON'T... spit fart swear call her babe put polyester beige pants with a black corduroy jacket and a pink shirt make her pay for the meal forget your wallet and put a stack or 100 bills in it use your cell phone ask her what she ate to be so beautiful try to f*ck her durin the first half hour chew with your mouth opened like Lyssa said: be yourself Have fun... let us know how it went..
a4a Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 put the rolled up sock down the front of your pants not the back.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 19, 2007 Author Posted September 19, 2007 going to a cafe not dinner. And I guess I'm wearing a solid white short sleeve button down shirt with blue jeans
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 19, 2007 Author Posted September 19, 2007 are you male or female? what are you going to wear? male and plan to wear a short-sleeved white button down shirt and blue jeans
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 j what NOT TO DO on a date Analyze the situation while you are experiencing it. Bash women in general and discuss your dating strikeouts. Talk in terms of a future together. Have the attitude of "so, are we going to have sex or not?" Ask your date to go dutch (unless it was previously agreed upon). Get sloppy drunk. Check out other women, or talk about how hot other women are. Brag about yourself. Clam up and not talk about anything (one of my worst dates ever was like that).
Cobra_X30 Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 Umm... Lyssa said "dont be yourself"... which for you DA is probably a good idea. Your whole "I'm going to reject her for some useless and retarded reason, before she can reject me" schtick, may not be the way to go on this one. Maybe this time open yourself up a little... listen alot, and hope for something good!
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 19, 2007 Author Posted September 19, 2007 I have to come up with another first date suggestion because I don;t want to be sitting directly across from a complete stranger 2 min after i meet them. That's setting myself up for failure
a4a Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 I have to come up with another first date suggestion because I don;t want to be sitting directly across from a complete stranger 2 min after i meet them. That's setting myself up for failure what? what does this mean? and if that is the case you may want to check out glory holes for a first date meeting place... barrier between you that way.
melodymatters Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 what? what does this mean? and if that is the case you may want to check out glory holes for a first date meeting place... barrier between you that way. He gets the shakes. It was in another post.
a4a Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 He gets the shakes. It was in another post. Take a valium then.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 19, 2007 Author Posted September 19, 2007 Take a valium then. I think i get the shakes because it's sitting across from a cute girl right away and not being active. I will try the side way thing tomorrow instead of directly across
soulseeker Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 Get over yourself. Seriously. Take a lighter approach to the whole thing. Whoever this woman is, she's nervous too. Coffee is good. You can actually talk and get to know the other person. Which, is the point of the whole thing, no? You have to be ok talking to someone you find attractive or youll never get anywhere. Practice is good. Have fun gd it!
Lyssa Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 DA - stop analyzing! Just go and have fun. Then come back and post about it!
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 19, 2007 Author Posted September 19, 2007 DA - stop analyzing! Just go and have fun. Then come back and post about it! That i will do
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 well I don't know if I;m going on the date tonight until I get home. We said we would meet at 6:30pm tonight for coffee. I wonder will this be the same ole I call on the day of the date to see if we are still meeeting and she doesn't pick up and never calls me back. I really hope that is not the case when I get home
Lyssa Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Do you have to wait until you get home to call?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 Do you have to wait until you get home to call? Oh wait, I didn't realize i have her number with me here, i thought i left it home. Ok I'm calling right now, phone is ringing, and.....................................................................VOICEMAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I knew it, typical life for me. well i left a message and said wanted to know was we still on for tonight and said i will be home in a hour. why does it always have to be this way? damm, i never knew that many good looking men lived in philly
Lyssa Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Oh wait, I didn't realize i have her number with me here, i thought i left it home. Ok I'm calling right now, phone is ringing, and.....................................................................VOICEMAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I knew it, typical life for me. well i left a message and said wanted to know was we still on for tonight and said i will be home in a hour. why does it always have to be this way? damm, i never knew that many good looking men lived in philly Ahh.. voicemail. Hate that. Well, you'll know inan hour if it is typical or not I never knew either cause I haven't been there!
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Oh wait, I didn't realize i have her number with me here, i thought i left it home. Ok I'm calling right now, phone is ringing, and.....................................................................VOICEMAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Most likely during the day she is working and couldn't pick up the phone.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 Most likely during the day she is working and couldn't pick up the phone. That's true, that's why i'm being openminded about the whole thing
sofakingmad Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 you did your part. it's on her now. good luck.
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