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shoesies05 Established Member

shoesies05

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:oSO-

long story short- me and this guy were together for a couple years and then we broke up cuz he cheated on me and i moved away.

well now im back in town,

but to make things complicated- he got married ( i believe, he register @ target and gifts were bought so i figured they went through with it) just a couple months after we finally broke up.

anyways- he wrote to me on myspace and said he knew i was in town and wants to see me.

 

and its been like 8 or 9 months since the final break up and no contact. well, we are supposed to see eachother tommorrow. and im not sure if i should see him, cuz it seems like he wants to see me for romantic reasons. and HE'S MARRIED...

 

but then at the other end, we had amazing sex. and all the guys ive been with since just havent lived up to the way it was before with me and him. so i kinda wanna see him just to have some great sex again... and him and his wife will break up eventually im sure cuz i know hes a cheater. and all i want from this is sex haha. but at the same time i dont want to be the other woman... but im selfish, so ill probly see him. and if it goes there i probly will do it.

 

Is this a bad idea? or what should i do?

 

<3 thnx luvs

Bobby NoBrains Established Member

Bobby NoBrains

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Is this a bad idea? or what should i do?

 

Yes, it is a bad idea. Don't meet him. If you do, don't get intimate with him. If you do, don't sleep with him. If you do, don't ask what to do then :p

 

Just my two bits ..

 

Bobby

LucreziaBorgia Established Member

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You don't strike me as the type of person who would have even an ounce of conscience about this, so I doubt anyone will be able to talk you out of it. At the very least, use protection. Given his type, you'll need it.

PoshPrincess Established Member

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Don't do it! For your own sanity. You say that you want sex from him and that the sex was amazing, but you're a woman - you can get sex anywhere and there are plenty more men out there who are good at it! I am concerned that if you got involved with him sexually you would also become emotionally involved and in my experience it really isn't worth it! Far too much heartache for everyone concerned.

 

Anyway, what sort of a man is this that marries someone only two months after splitting up with you and is already considering cheating on his new W?!!! Would you really want to get yourself involved with him, c'mon!

Whyme_wtf Established Member

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Why are you even asking? I can't even believe the question.

Both of you are selfish fools who will end up old (if the STD's don't get you) and alone.

Have a nice life.

bish Established Member

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:oSO-

long story short- me and this guy were together for a couple years and then we broke up cuz he cheated on me and i moved away.

well now im back in town,

but to make things complicated- he got married ( i believe, he register @ target and gifts were bought so i figured they went through with it) just a couple months after we finally broke up.

anyways- he wrote to me on myspace and said he knew i was in town and wants to see me.

 

and its been like 8 or 9 months since the final break up and no contact. well, we are supposed to see eachother tommorrow. and im not sure if i should see him, cuz it seems like he wants to see me for romantic reasons. and HE'S MARRIED...

 

but then at the other end, we had amazing sex. and all the guys ive been with since just havent lived up to the way it was before with me and him. so i kinda wanna see him just to have some great sex again... and him and his wife will break up eventually im sure cuz i know hes a cheater. and all i want from this is sex haha. but at the same time i dont want to be the other woman... but im selfish, so ill probly see him. and if it goes there i probly will do it.

 

Is this a bad idea? or what should i do?

 

<3 thnx luvs

 

Do whatever the hell you want to do. Selfish people like you always do no matter who they hurt.

 

And the funny thing is...he played you for a fool while you were dating and you still want to bone him? LMFAO. Boy...he's playing you like a fiddle.

 

Guess the saying is true...jerks get the girls and then they complain when they end up getting screwed over.

bish Established Member

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Why are you even asking? I can't even believe the question.

Both of you are selfish fools who will end up old (if the STD's don't get you) and alone.

Have a nice life.

 

The BW just might beat the crap out of her if she finds out and hopefully take the jackass of a H to the cleaners in a divorce.

 

I think cheaters should not be entitled to half of the marital assets. Maybe 75 to the BS and 25 to the worthless cheater.

rooseveltjezebel Member

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I am concerned that if you got involved with him sexually you would also become emotionally involved and in my experience it really isn't worth it!

 

 

I guess I have to agree with this statement because I just did what you are considering and I don't think it was worth it. Even though I told myself it was just for the sex, I now have all these thoughts running around in my head like "why hasn't he called," "are we still going to be friends," "has he lost all respect for me?"

 

Just be careful and really think about what you are considering. I don't think you are selfish; I think you are just failing to consider all of the consequences with a clear mind. And then again, maybe you are clearly considering the consequences and truly know that you really won't become emotionally attached. But even if it will just be sex, you have to decide if you can handle the guilt of being the "other woman."

 

I hope you make the right decision.

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:oSO-

long story short- me and this guy were together for a couple years and then we broke up cuz he cheated on me and i moved away.

well now im back in town,

but to make things complicated- he got married ( i believe, he register @ target and gifts were bought so i figured they went through with it) just a couple months after we finally broke up.

anyways- he wrote to me on myspace and said he knew i was in town and wants to see me.

 

and its been like 8 or 9 months since the final break up and no contact. well, we are supposed to see eachother tommorrow. and im not sure if i should see him, cuz it seems like he wants to see me for romantic reasons. and HE'S MARRIED...

 

but then at the other end, we had amazing sex. and all the guys ive been with since just havent lived up to the way it was before with me and him. so i kinda wanna see him just to have some great sex again... and him and his wife will break up eventually im sure cuz i know hes a cheater. and all i want from this is sex haha. but at the same time i dont want to be the other woman... but im selfish, so ill probly see him. and if it goes there i probly will do it.

 

Is this a bad idea? or what should i do?

 

<3 thnx luvs

 

Did you enjoy it when he cheated on you?

 

I'm not sure why you would want to enable that kind of behavior and hurt someone just as you were hurt?

 

You may want to rationalize this course of action by thinking that it's just for you... and that he would do this with someone else anyways... but realize thats a false justification. It's one thing to believe that he will do this with someone else and hurt his wife, but it's something completely different to be the one who pulls the trigger!

Lizzie60 Established Member

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from what I read... your mind is pretty much made up... and you WILL have sex with him...

 

well.. go for it.. I'm in a bad position to convince you not to... :laugh:

 

F*ck his brains out!!! :bunny: Just don't get 'attached' :D

Woggle Established Member

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I say go ahead and do it but make sure to tell his wife so she can dump his sorry ass and you two can both have each other because you deserve each other. Let his wife get out and find somebody more worthy while it is early in the marriage.

TogetherForever Established Member

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from what I read... your mind is pretty much made up... and you WILL have sex with him...

 

well.. go for it.. I'm in a bad position to convince you not to... :laugh:

 

F*ck his brains out!!! :bunny: Just don't get 'attached' :D

 

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao:DITTO FROM ME:lmao::lmao::lmao:JUST DO IT.

TF

Whyme_wtf Established Member

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Let his wife get out and find somebody more worthy while it is early in the marriage.

I agree with Woggle. Let the W out to find someone good for herself. Do this for her!!!!

So with that in mind, there really is more BANG:bunny: for you BUCK:bunny:.

 

F his brains out and somehow make sure the W finds out. Maybe video tape it and send her a copy. That way she can use it to enable her to drag his D*#K into court and you can have a copy of the video for your lonely nights alone to diddle with.

:bunny::bunny:ENJOY IT!:bunny::bunny:

:bunny::bunny:Scream Loud on the Video:bunny::bunny:

underpants Established Member

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Wow,

 

This sounds like revenge mixed with a need for validation.

 

Would it make you feel good to contribute to his unfaithful behavior? A wrong righted in a twisted way?

 

Does it validate you to be the other party when this scenerio was the demise of your relationship with him? Do you feel 'honored' that he chose you?

 

I think the experience will leave you more hollow in the long run.

 

Maybe this is how a betrayed person becomes the thing that hurt them. Rather cyclic and a bit ironic.

Woggle Established Member

Woggle

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I agree with Woggle. Let the W out to find someone good for herself. Do this for her!!!!

So with that in mind, there really is more BANG:bunny: for you BUCK:bunny:.

 

F his brains out and somehow make sure the W finds out. Maybe video tape it and send her a copy. That way she can use it to enable her to drag his D*#K into court and you can have a copy of the video for your lonely nights alone to diddle with.

:bunny::bunny:ENJOY IT!:bunny::bunny:

:bunny::bunny:Scream Loud on the Video:bunny::bunny:

 

She can put it on the internet too so everybody can see what a cheater this guy is.

Mustang Sally Established Member

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I would recommend obtaining a little personal integrity and self-respect.

 

I'm not proud of it, but I completely understand the desire to f*ck another woman's husband's brains out....believe me.

It's called LUST.

Pretty simple concept, but with amazingly complex consequences.

 

You deserve to think of yourself (and have other people think of you) better than that.

IamASelfishSOB Established Member

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I would recommend obtaining a little personal integrity and self-respect.

 

I'm not proud of it, but I completely understand the desire to f*ck another woman's husband's brains out....believe me.

It's called LUST.

Pretty simple concept, but with amazingly complex consequences.

 

You deserve to think of yourself (and have other people think of you) better than that.

 

Hmmmm... lust. Nasty thing, that lust.

Tomcat33 Established Member

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His W is not your responsibility so forget about what he will and won't do to his W, it's not your problem it's hers/theirs..

 

My question is, why would you want to give that guy the satisfaction of being with him after he cheated on you? All you would do is elevate him higher on his high horse, man I would have too much pride for that, and I've done some low $ht so that kind of says it all for me...:laugh::laugh:

Good sex is easier to come by than the ability of looking at oneself in the mirror and actually liking what one sees after we do something that kills our dignity. have some dignity and look the other way don't give him the satisfaction.

The sex will be fine for the instant and after you'll feel like crap, why bother?

PoshPrincess Established Member

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But even if it will just be sex, you have to decide if you can handle the guilt of being the "other woman."

 

This isn't a dig, just an observation, but IMO someone who can f**k a MP 'for the sake of f**king them' is not too likely to feel guilty. I think the guilt is more likely to kick in if/when you fall in love with the MP and start to realise the affect the A will have on their life and the people they love.

PoshPrincess Established Member

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My question is, why would you want to give that guy the satisfaction of being with him after he cheated on you? All you would do is elevate him higher on his high horse, man I would have too much pride for that, and I've done some low $ht so that kind of says it all for me...:laugh::laugh:

Good sex is easier to come by than the ability of looking at oneself in the mirror and actually liking what one sees after we do something that kills our dignity. have some dignity and look the other way don't give him the satisfaction.

The sex will be fine for the instant and after you'll feel like crap, why bother?

 

Too true. All you're gonna do is feed this guy's ego even more! Let him get his kicks somewhere else!

Lyssa Established Member

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This isn't a dig, just an observation, but IMO someone who can f**k a MP 'for the sake of f**king them' is not too likely to feel guilty. I think the guilt is more likely to kick in if/when you fall in love with the MP and start to realise the affect the A will have on their life and the people they love.

 

That is so true!

outofdarkness Established Member

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Yes, it is a bad idea. Don't meet him. If you do, don't get intimate with him. If you do, don't sleep with him. If you do, don't ask what to do then :p

 

Just my two bits ..

 

Bobby

LOVE your reply...Just wanted u to know! ood

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shoesies05 Established Member

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alright,

so im not sure wut will happen tonight. Yu guys have all said a lot of what ive thought about: that id just put him on a high horse and kinda encourage what he did to me.

 

one thing ive thought about doing is confronting him about being married- and seeing me, and wtf is wrong with him... but then me knowing hes married and agreeing to see him to "talk" isnt much better.

 

and honestly- u all have said good sex is easy to find... but so far for me- not so much.

 

ill let you guys know what i did later...

<3 thnx for the responses, even the ones that said i dont have a brain

underpants Established Member

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The best revenge would have been to stand him up.

 

Also to let the new wife know where the meeting was to take place so she could confront.

 

Yaaarrrrr!!!

mourningMM Established Member

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The BW just might beat the crap out of her if she finds out and hopefully take the jackass of a H to the cleaners in a divorce.

 

I think cheaters should not be entitled to half of the marital assets. Maybe 75 to the BS and 25 to the worthless cheater.

 

I think that the cheater should pay 50% to the kids, 40% to the BS and then another 10% to the OP who have fallen in love with a cheater. I think cheaters should have to give up everything to the people that they hurt; AND get fixed.

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