IpAncA Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 What do you guys consider crossing the line when your SO chats on-line? I'd like both men and women's opinion on this please.
Trialbyfire Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 If you feel you have to keep it a secret from your SO, you've crossed the line.
popey Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 If you feel you have to keep it a secret from your SO, you've crossed the line. That's a good threshold. I was going to say, if you are doing something you wouldn't want your SO to do. But Trialbyfire's is better, b/c what really matters is if you are doing something your SO would not be comfortable with I think more. But if you want a personal standard, I would not be ok with my SO flirting. Even if he thinks its harmless; if he wants to do this, I'm not the right one for him.
Author IpAncA Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 If you feel you have to keep it a secret from your SO, you've crossed the line. I agree and disagree with that but would agree as long as what that person did KNEW their SO would disapprove.
mental_traveller Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Don't do anything you wouldn't want your SO to find out. Don't do anything you wouldn't want your SO to do.
Trialbyfire Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 I dunno but more than anything, if I feel I can't show my SO who and what I've communicated, even if there are issues that involve him, it would be across the line for me. Same holds true in reverse.
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