babycherub Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 So ran into someone from my past three months ago almost, someone who was interested in pursuing a relationship with me 4 years ago. " He says it was love a first site" so anyway we have been chatting spending hours on end on the phone as their is 5 hours of travel time between us. We used to talk every night, he would mostly be the one calling me. We decided a month ago that we clicked, and have this unbelievable connection. But there are a few things that are driving me nuts, he was supposed to move out to where I live so we can be together, and then his mom passed away, and since then the calls have been infrequent I offered him an out, if having a relationship is too much for him to handle with everything that has happened, and he said he wants to be with me more now then 4 years ago..... then the calls have stopped again, its been 2 days now since we talked last, and I am not sure how to feel anymore. I love him, if I didn't I would have nights of restless sleep worrying about him, is he safe, hurt why didn't he call. Should I stay or should I Go... I feel like my life is on hold, that I am stuck in limbo....
catrocks Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 I would wait and not do anything right now.... if his mother has recently died and you have offered him an out which he did not take then he probably just wants some time to grieve. Give him a week to initiate contact, and if he hasn't called by then, ask him whats up with that. But you probably should give him some space and time. If he didn't want to be with you he would have taken that out. Just let him know you're there for him, and there's no rush.
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