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Is a break the end of a long distance relationship


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I have been dating this girl for two years, we meet while i was an exchange student in America.

 

We see each other at spring break christmas and summer.

 

This summer i went to see her it was fun we went through a few problems. firstly she would have to work and i would go to a baseball game with her dad. She would not come home from work she would stay at her aunts.

 

I talked to her about it and asked if she cud just call me and let me know shes not coming home. She didnt see why she should have to let me know and continued to do this once in a while. All i wanted was a phone call to say hey im not going to be home im with my aunt.

 

Second problem was she meet her old friend from high school and ever since that he was texting her the whole two months i was there non stop she was even getting txts from him in the middle of the night. We talked about and she felt she was doing nothing wrong. She said he was a looser and nothing to worry about. I felt he was interested in her and her replying was feeding his interest.

 

 

 

This all hurt, recently since i have come home our contact has been less n less. Tyring to talk to her on web calm was getting frustrating she would not be paying attention to our conversations.

 

Just recently she decied she wanted a break, the conversation seemed to be going towards breaking up, she was crying and up set and telling me she loves me but needs to sort her self out. She would almost say shes breaking up but say she loves me at the same time.

 

We came to the conclusion that a break would be an idea, her reasons are she thought i was nagging her about going to her aunts for the night and texting this guy. Felt that i was constantly questioning her actions.

 

She also felt that she needed time to grow up she is 20, and said she needs to sort things out in her head.

 

She said she was struggeling with the distance

 

I can understand this and have been gathering my self to move on but then she e mails me and says she loves me and that im the one she wants, shes sorry for how it came out, that it was coming and that she just needs a break. She also said that its her and not me and that nothing i have done has lead to this.

 

I love her very much but im trying not to hang on to this e mail as a hope of it being ok. I am sorry if this is all coming out in a bundle i find it difficult to talk about. We were ingaged and i would do any thing for her. I am struggeling not to contact her but i know its for the best.

 

Some times i feel like i should of said nothing about the txting and the not coming home.

 

I have a few questions?

 

1. is a beak the end?

 

2. when she says its her and not me does that mean she no longer loves me

 

3. is there a good length of time to leave a situation like this

 

4. your opinion on the situation

 

Thank you for reading im sorry if its not clear my problem

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