fray718 Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 This is an update on the thread below. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t129796/ He and this girl were only a 'couple' for a week exactly. He changed back his status to 'single' last night and for some reason I was so happy! I know this probably doesn't have anything to do with me and it won't effect me, but I'm just happy and I dont know why. I'm a very unhealthy person. I know I shouldnt have checked his page but i broke down anyway. I'm glad I checked in this case though.
Star Gazer Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 Don't count your eggs before they hatch. MySpace status doesn't mean the same thing to everyone. My friends and I have discussed this at length, actually. "In a Relationship" status on MySpace means a LOT more to some than others. I was dating a guy who changed his status to that, and I asked him to change it back to "Single" until we had decided we were actually firmly in a committed relationship...but by no means should any girl (or guy) have been excited over that change, because we were still very much dating... That said, I'm concerned about how you're obsessing over a guy you dated for a very short period of time all the way back in April (or was it even March?). He's moved on. Why haven't you?
oppath Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 Don't pay any attention to it. True, my new "gf" got excited when she learned I was single...but in my last relationship, which was fully a committed relationship (well, it actually was not, but that is because she was saying one thing and doing another), she kept her myspace relationship status as "swinger" instead of changing it to "in a relationship." Any number of things could be going on. They could still be dating like SG said. They could be broken up but talking about working things out, who knows. It is honestly no reason to get excited. You are already hopeful something could happen. There is no reason to have that hope right now.
Author fray718 Posted September 18, 2007 Author Posted September 18, 2007 Yea you guys are right, this 'happiness' I have might just come back and bite me in the a**. And SG, you will laugh at me for saying this, but this thread is actually in relation to a guy I broke up with 1.75 years ago (you will see the details once you click on the link) not with the most recent guy. And as for hope, there is no more hope. Like I said this was 1.75 years ago. I do NOT at all think about getting back with him. I was never hopeful, but rather hurt and bothered by him being with another girl. I know this is very unhealthy since it has been so freaking long! I think I might really consider therapy.
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