Author Donza Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 I am the original poster... Why was she so upset when i texted her? I feel terrible atm... I meant no harm to her... Her reply was amicable and polite via text. But i was told by a mutual perosn we know that she was upset by my text. I admit after two months NC it must have been a shock for her. But she did not need to reply. Wish i had never done it now. I am nearly back to square one!
Trialbyfire Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Then start working on yourself and try to stop thinking about her. One thing though, each time you'll find it's easier to get over the contact. Hardline NC doesn't always work for everyone. Some people need to slowly wean themselves off the other person with spates of LC.
Spinderella Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 you have all the information that you need to know. she still does not want you to contact her, and you are still not over her. if you are not over her then you should not contact her at all. you need to work on stopping this habit of thinking about her all the time, only then will you get over her. try to change the thoughts about her as they come to you. my feelings are that usually if you are not over a short relationship after quite a few months then you have a habit of beating yourself up mentally, and this is just a stick to use. try to think positively about yourself, watch the thoughts as they come and answer with a positive affirmation. it sounds silly but it does work.
Replicant Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 "I'm OK......Thanks for the txt message" The best way for you to interpret this is she is indifferent to you. She didn't care if you did or did not send this message.....Now for you it's just set you back to pining away for someone whom does not deserve the feeling in which represents it. Regardless of whom she once was, she is not that person anymore. In time you'll begin to see that. In order to do so maintain NC, put her out of your life so you can move on with your own....Her life and goings on should no longer be your concern.
Author Donza Posted September 21, 2007 Author Posted September 21, 2007 The best way for you to interpret this is she is indifferent to you. She didn't care if you did or did not send this message.....Now for you it's just set you back to pining away for someone whom does not deserve the feeling in which represents it. Regardless of whom she once was, she is not that person anymore. In time you'll begin to see that. In order to do so maintain NC, put her out of your life so you can move on with your own....Her life and goings on should no longer be your concern. I am maintaining NC. Yes i thought it was indifferent, however she was upset by my text message. In that sense i should not have broken NC. But i did what i thought was right.
Ssheena Posted September 21, 2007 Posted September 21, 2007 You sent her a plain simple, sorry to hear about your grandfather txt message. She responded. It was polite and straight forward. However, I think that by sending it you were hoping to get more than you did and possibly were using the fact that her grandfather died as a way to open the door. If she had wanted to this would have been her chance. She doesn't. Don't contact her again. It was nice of you to send her regards after the death.
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