mike5770 Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 I have been talking to a beautiful woman on the bus for the last 2 months after the disaster with bus girl number 1 (if u want details of that one read my first post as is too tiring for my carpal tunnel to rehash it) anyway i had a couple of beers in town and then got on the bus and saw her... and at the end of the route feeling confident and the inhibitions lowered invited her for drinks at the local suburban mall drinking hole. Had the absolute best time I have had since that night and you know what? I didn't even think one time of the lovecrush while I was with this new one, and now I know things happen for a reason. I don't know if this will work out, but I do know it was a great confidence builder and it was nice not obsessing over lovecrush. So remember there are sooo many others out there and he/she wasn't the only person on earth. Good luck to all!
Ocean-Blue Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 mike: Congrats on getting over the lovecrush. This is one of the best ways to get over an ex. Sure there are feelings and issues one must deal with before moving on, but it helps when you have someone else there showing interest in you. My friends who've gone through breakups all attest to this. =O)
CaliGuy Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 I think it's good to go out on "dates" when you are healing, but it is not good to DATE someone exclusively until you are completely healed. By that I don't mean be promiscuous, I mean get out and get used to be around women again and rebuild your confidence. A break up can be devastating to your confidence, but only if you allow it happen. As I've said often, if you are not in control of your emotions then by default your emotions are in control of you.
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