Trialbyfire Posted September 19, 2007 Posted September 19, 2007 There's a strange phenomenon that I've noticed happens. People can sense you're from out-of-town and seem to gravitate to you. My friends and I went to visit a g/f who moved to another city. We went clubbing and got mobbed, even though there were some gorgeous women at the club. It was almost freaky.
Izzy B Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 It could also be that I'm just plain irresistible, but I don't think anyone on LS would buy that for a second. Yes, you've posted your photo before and I'd have to agree 100 percent on that one. 150% if that were possible.
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 Yes, you've posted your photo before and I'd have to agree 100 percent on that one. 150% if that were possible. *fistpump* YES!
underpants Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Awe Kryt, I've seen your pic too. Kind of reminds me of Loreen Greene for some reason? Anyway. I just wish you would ask yourself what it is that YOU really want for yourself. For the long haul...if that is even a contimplation for you...deep down. You do so remind me of my mad date. He is going through ...interested good women right and left and they all throw him into that cornflake box. He arrogantly goes on with his misson believing that he has peaked all their interests. (trust me he has not) I just worry that eventually he will be stuck swimming with more unsavory types and thus...eventually repeating his own pattern. I worry for you in this same manner a bit.
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 Anyway. I just wish you would ask yourself what it is that YOU really want for yourself. For the long haul...if that is even a contimplation for you...deep down. I would say that simply, I'm ready to find someone to commit to. I'm just having fun with random incidents until then and am taking the time in being way more selective than I've been in the past. Trust me, if I would have been interested in any of these recent women in the long-term, I wouldn't have acted the way I did, that's for sure. They would have know it, for better or worse.
Izzy B Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 *fistpump* YES! That's cool we can whole-heartedly agree!
Kamille Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 I would say that simply, I'm ready to find someone to commit to. I'm just having fun with random incidents until then and am taking the time in being way more selective than I've been in the past. Trust me, if I would have been interested in any of these recent women in the long-term, I wouldn't have acted the way I did, that's for sure. They would have know it, for better or worse. IT's funny. I am in the same boat as you right now. I am ready to have someone in my life but until I find that person - and as a way to find that person - I am having a lot of little flings. I even gravitated and made out with a guy I dated last summer this weekend. And it was just really fun. Nothing more. I've become a pro at the 'non-break-up'. You know, that conversation where you both agree not to get involved further without actually mentionning the words 'not see each other anymore' or 'break up' or even 'we need to talk'. I see dating as a way to meet people... and my life is enriched by meeting all these men. I am friends with all of them still. I doubt I would get any yap for this from anyone. No one would suspect me of messing with their minds and seducing them against their will. I would rather be celebrated as an emancipated woman. I wonder why people are so harsh on you. Dating is dating. Being single is being single. She is as responsible for what happened as you are. It's not like women are vulnerable little flowers who can only bloom once they have snatched a man.
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 I wonder why people are so harsh on you. Dating is dating. Being single is being single. She is as responsible for what happened as you are. It's not like women are vulnerable little flowers who can only bloom once they have snatched a man. It's nice that I'm not the only one that sees that. I though it might have just been me. Yeah, it must be pretty easy as a woman to date freely. So many men just want what they can get anyway.
fray718 Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 It's nice that I'm not the only one that sees that. I though it might have just been me. Yeah, it must be pretty easy as a woman to date freely. So many men just want what they can get anyway. I agree and disagree. I think it's fine to do little flings as long as you tell people BEFOREHAND that you are not in it for the long term. I think it's just a basic form of human decency to think 'hey maybe she'd be hurt if this happens and I don't think I want to hurt her just so I myself can have a bit of fun, maybe I should exercise some self control and not do this'...
szq77 Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Then take it all back! You know we are still at the point where we could be friends.... I know you wish 'you could take it all back' and you can, but just be honest with me! I had fun with you but if you aren't into it, you aren't into it. I'm not gonna say it didn't hurt so see it all laid out online though.... especially the part about you not being physically attracted to me. OUCH! And don't kid yourself - you are not blameless for the whole thing.... I do hope that we can still be friends though, cause I think you're a pretty great person.
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 Then take it all back! You know we are still at the point where we could be friends.... I know you wish 'you could take it all back' and you can, but just be honest with me! I had fun with you but if you aren't into it, you aren't into it. I'm not gonna say it didn't hurt so see it all laid out online though.... especially the part about you not being physically attracted to me. OUCH! And don't kid yourself - you are not blameless for the whole thing.... I do hope that we can still be friends though, cause I think you're a pretty great person. That's creepy...
shadowplay Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 ^wow, how did you find this? !!! makes me think twice about writing anything personal online...
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 I agree and disagree. I think it's fine to do little flings as long as you tell people BEFOREHAND that you are not in it for the long term. I think it's just a basic form of human decency to think 'hey maybe she'd be hurt if this happens and I don't think I want to hurt her just so I myself can have a bit of fun, maybe I should exercise some self control and not do this'... I'm on the fence on this. When two people are in a dating or friends situation in which there is no exclusivity issue or talk, isn't the impetus really on the person that is more invested or that does want something more? Aren't they the ones with more at stake and therefore the ones responsible to protect themselves? I mean granted, I could do the "moral" thing (whatever that even means anymore) and bring up the talk ahead of time, but isn't the person in it for more really more in a position to have the talk?
Kamille Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 Then take it all back! You know we are still at the point where we could be friends.... I know you wish 'you could take it all back' and you can, but just be honest with me! I had fun with you but if you aren't into it, you aren't into it. I'm not gonna say it didn't hurt so see it all laid out online though.... especially the part about you not being physically attracted to me. OUCH! And don't kid yourself - you are not blameless for the whole thing.... I do hope that we can still be friends though, cause I think you're a pretty great person. whoa! it's gotta be a prank! Or someone who is projecting their own situation onto yours...
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 I think you're a pretty great person. That's what I tell people, but they never believe me
szq77 Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 because I always go onto these message boards to read people's woes.... guess this time it just affected me personally.... And yes, it really is me.
shadowplay Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 That's creepy... maybe just someone messing with you..?
shadowplay Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 because I always go onto these message boards to read people's woes.... guess this time it just affected me personally.... And yes, it really is me. how do you even know it was you given how vague his post was?
szq77 Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 because I recognized his user name/email - and the situation sounded eerily familiar....
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 If she tells me what injury she sustained that night and how I'm a believer...
szq77 Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 That's what I tell people, but they never believe me Well you are, even if you do go online and write about me...
shadowplay Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 because I recognized his user name/email - and the situation sounded eerily familiar.... so have you been spying on him in other posts if you recognized his username? this is pretty weird...haha
Author Krytellan Posted September 20, 2007 Author Posted September 20, 2007 Would this be an LS first?
szq77 Posted September 20, 2007 Posted September 20, 2007 No!!! I am so not a stalker, I just happened to come across this one and recognized the name....
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