FireandIce Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 The top five signs IMO are: 1) Unexplained hang ups. I used to get them all of the time. Or some guy would call of the time (I found out it was her brother calling for her) and when I'd ask he'd just say it was work stuff. 2) Unexplained absenses. Had to work overtime, had a meeting, ran into someone uptown and chatted for a bit, etc. 3) Picking fights for no reason and then not wanting to discuss what's going on. Instead would take off "to clear his head". Umm yeah. 4) Distancing himself from the kids and any other family related activity. Would always seem bored or uninterested. 5) Having no interest in you at all. Doesn't care what you did that day, doesn't care that you need to go and do something because OMG they might have plans too and other stuff like that. It's a horrible thing to go through so I feel your pain.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 For example: a woman doesn't just go "get a wax" for no reason, if she wasn't into waxing before. really?.....but, you have to have a first wax before you are a seasoned waxer...
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Yeah, I should have added a bit there. I was thinking of a post I saw on another forum where a guy was asking about his wife's sudden interest in waxing in preparation for a 'girls only' weekend, and another time where a guy's wife started waxing (among other things, lingerie, etc), but was still denying him sex. I guess I should have mentioned context.
Rooster_DAR Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Not sure if this was mentioned: but they will groom their pubic hair in a way they don't normally, and do it for no apparent reason. For example: a woman doesn't just go "get a wax" for no reason, if she wasn't into waxing before. A man won't spend a half hour trimming up his pubes for a "night out with the guys." Yup, this is what my ex did. This was probably one of the most notable giveaways.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Yup, this is what my ex did. This was probably one of the most notable giveaways. yeah but...people aren't born waxed, so if you decide to wax, there has to be a first time. that seems like a very debatable sign of cheating, unless it's amidst other signs as well. i mean, i never shaved or trimmed or anything, until one day i did...i wasn't cheating on anyone though, and i doubt every person who chooses to groom their pubic hair is doing it for an affair.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Yeah, I should have added a bit there. I was thinking of a post I saw on another forum where a guy was asking about his wife's sudden interest in waxing in preparation for a 'girls only' weekend, and another time where a guy's wife started waxing (among other things, lingerie, etc), but was still denying him sex. I guess I should have mentioned context. gotcha! thanks for clarifying.
Rooster_DAR Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Yup, this is what my ex did. This was probably one of the most notable giveaways. Well it certainly wasn't for me, it was for the bonehead she was screwing around with. D'oh!
KenzieAbsolutely Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 Well it certainly wasn't for me, it was for the bonehead she was screwing around with. D'oh! yeeesh. sorry, rooster...
alterego1234 Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 One sign I haven't seen called out yet: 1. You're suspicious something is going on, and you're normally not a suspicious or paranoid person. Personally, I sorta one day just had this "aha!" moment that maybe my wife was having an affair. And then as I became suspicious I began noticing all the signs she was giving off. In retrospect, she had been giving them off for a while before I realized what was going on, so I think there is a bit of denial or self-preservation going on for a while where as the BS you don't really want to face facts. (Heck, I'm still facing facts two years later.) But the evidence piles up until you just sort of say to yourself, "Hunh, that's weird, she's acting like she's having an affair...Uh oh..." I've heard it said before, if you think there's someone else, you're probably right. Sure, once in a great while there's an exception, but I think it's a good rule.
Rooster_DAR Posted October 4, 2007 Posted October 4, 2007 One sign I haven't seen called out yet: 1. You're suspicious something is going on, and you're normally not a suspicious or paranoid person. Personally, I sorta one day just had this "aha!" moment that maybe my wife was having an affair. And then as I became suspicious I began noticing all the signs she was giving off. In retrospect, she had been giving them off for a while before I realized what was going on, so I think there is a bit of denial or self-preservation going on for a while where as the BS you don't really want to face facts. (Heck, I'm still facing facts two years later.) But the evidence piles up until you just sort of say to yourself, "Hunh, that's weird, she's acting like she's having an affair...Uh oh..." I've heard it said before, if you think there's someone else, you're probably right. Sure, once in a great while there's an exception, but I think it's a good rule. Yup, unless you've been diagnosed as paranoid schizophrenia or mental illness, your gut feeling won't be wrong.
Author Great Gazoo Posted October 21, 2007 Author Posted October 21, 2007 Can anyone tell me if there is a way to extract erased information off a cell phone? Mostly text messages is what I am after? Or is there a way they can be saved and not permanently erased?
Recommended Posts