aditto0819 Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 Hello All, i would like someones help on this.. ok so am still in love with my ex and will always be i feel..we haven't been together in awile,like almost 2 years...and he has a gf..though within these 2 years we still have kept contact..we would still meet up and hook up.. and he would still tell me how he still loves me and we tryed to get back together but it wouldn't work then he goes back to her bc he cant be alone.. so am sick of this and finally ready to let go.. i cant believe i would still get with my ex who has a gf.. that was bad. me and him went out for 4 years and these last 2 hes still in my life even though he has a gf.. i know he doesnt love me anymore like that, and i feel he keeps me around just to still have me in his life. so what i have decided to do is move away..far away back east to live with my father and go to school. am not just moving away bc of him even though hopefully this will help me...am moving for other reasons also. So obviuos he knows am leaving and it doesnt even bother him..hes just like ohh thats cool, and your doing this not me.. i asked him if he even wanted to meet up with me before i go.. and he tells me no am busy blah, blah.. so ok.. i leave in 4 days which who knows if and when i will see him next and he doesnt even care.. like its nothing.. so am sitting here and pretty hurt and depressed how someone after 6 years of knowing them doesnt even care am moving across country. i feel like i was nothing to him at all. so my question is do you think he does care at all? hiding those feeling.. or maybe wont even realize am gone till am gone.. and finally not being there for his beck and call anymore.. Note: i cant beleive i am doing this and moving way its a very big step and deal for me and he doesn't even realize how diffrent things are going to be? Any advise?? or what you think..on what he feels about this? thank you very much
tinke Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 my thoughts are..he was steadily cheating on his girlfriend, showing disrespect to her. and now...YOU are feeling the same. what more is there? it would be hard to expect more from him when you knew all along he was degrading his current relationship. can i ask..were you hopeful he'd leave her for you? moving and attending school sounds like a winning solution!
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