mich_dog_lover Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 I have been giving my h his space. I did ask him if he wanted to go out sat night and he said yes. So we went out to dinner and then we went shopping. It was fun. We talked a little about the marriage but then he said that when I start talking about the marriage then he feels like I am nagging SO I said I was sorry and no more talk of marriage. We then went out bowling and that was fun. After bowling I went to take him home and he invited me in.. Well I ended up spending the night. It seemed really nice to cuddle with him and surprised that he cuddled back. In the talk we did have he said he doesnt know why he doesnt want a divorce. He said he wasnt attracted to me . He said although I am pretty and attractive HE wasnt attracted to me. He said that he used to be but I know I have gained some weight and there is nothing I can do about it as I am prego. I said well there is nothing I can do about that until the baby is born.He is like no its that you used to be nice. He said that he still has feellings for me . So I am not trying to get excited. I am just thinking it was a good night. Well the weird thing was that when I told him that I was looking for another house he kinda freaked out and said you are moving on? I said well yeah I cant wait forever. Then he is like we cant all fit in the house you are looking at and I am like nope. I didnt know I was supposed to get a house for all of us.So that is a bit confusing to me unless it was just that he thought I would sit around and wait for him. Oh and then he said he didnt really know what he wanted and asked what I wanted. I said I wanted to work on the marriage so he is like then work on the marriage. He is like stop worrying about me and what I want. Do what you feel is right. So that is what I am going to do! Any thoughts? Anyone?
Chrome Barracuda Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 Read my other post. in your own thread.
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