Newtotheblogthing Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 So I just have to write to tell you guys that I took everyone's advice stopped texting and I am trying to move on. After 5 days of no contact whatsoever my ex called me last night. He had been drinking, of course. I wasn't going to answer but I couldn't help myself. I acted like I didn't care but I was so anxious and actually felt like I was going to throw up. He wanted to see me.. his new gf was asleep next door. Nice huh? Basically, what I took from it was that no he is not over me. He admitted he still loved me but for now I guess it doesn't matter. Nothing has changed but I do walk away with the knowledge he IS still thinking about me, he hasn't completely moved on and I can tell he obviously isn't fully committed to this new relationship otherwise he wouldn't be calling me. When committed he is NOT a cheater at all. When he's in it, he's in it. I feel bad that I take solace in that but I do. I am going to continue NC from here on out because it has helped me and I don't want to have any false hope on a reconciliation right now. He was drunk right? So I should just continue with my life in the meantime? Plus he just wants to know i am still there correct? Any feedback? Any advice? Thanks! Here's my original blog: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t129580/
ebonyjade Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 That was perfectly done chick... well done..just make sure you erase all his numbers so you don't after a night on the tiles drunkenly call or text him!!!! Next time don't pick the phone up and make the boy sweat... Good luck xxx
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