pioneer Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 Ok, I was seeing my ex for about 3 months, she’s 19 im 27. Before this I was best friends with her for about 7 months, I used to do everything for her, lifts everywhere, and I paid for everything. We split up, because she wanted to and she started seeing someone else more or less straight away. After she’d been seeing them for about 2 weeks, she came round to my house one night and slept with me behind his back, he found out about this but continued to stay with her. Anyway, after this we fell out and were at each others throats for about 3 months, she owed me money which she wouldn’t pay back etc…. But now we’ve come to a point where we’ve agreed not to fall out and we’ve kind of ended up friends again, which isn’t what I want because I still have strong feelings for her. We go out behind her boyfriends back, she tells him she’s tired and stuff. We don’t get up to anything wrong, but im yet again, taking her out and paying for everything we do. Its making me feel really depressed knowing that she’s going back to someone else at night and im sure he would flip is he know what she was doing, but I find it hard to say no to her, I love being with her and I don’t know how to put a stop to it. Im sure she has no consideration for my feelings or how much it is hurting me, iv tried to promise myself not to see her but I always fall for it when she rings, what do I do?………..
Curious139 Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 Get out. She is immature and using you. At 19 she is selfish and getting an ego boost and frankly I can't blame her. You are more mature but caught on the cusps of love. It will end in tears and more pain. Protect yourself. Do you really want a girl who could treat you and her boyfriend this way?? NO! Cut off all contact. It will be hard but you have to get out. Take care.
peachfuzz Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 I agree with the last comment. She's a ho. Let it go. She will not change herself it is going too good for her right now. She's on a high that will eventually crash. You can tell her that but she will not listen. She is just caring about the next good time. You cant change that persona she has picked up so quit clinging to her and trying. I am kinda in the same mess as you but in a little more serious mess cause a unborn child is involved. Read my post "She's 4 months pregnant and left me". and just F Y I my neighbor is no longer my neighbor.
Author pioneer Posted September 19, 2007 Author Posted September 19, 2007 Yup, i know iv got to stop seeing her, iv tried it before but i always end up giving in, and she knows this. But, im tired of being used so this time im going to give it a real shot, i still reply to her texts, etc...... but im now detrmined not to see her! Plus im not going to fall out with her as in the past, a case of, "keep your friends close and your enemies closer" i think Thanks for the advise, its had a real bearing on my decision.
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