babygirl21 Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 I have this guy at work. He just started a few months ago but when he first started he'd give me these weird looks.And wuld always seem to find a way to be around where i was. I got to talkin to him one day in the breakroom and seems he misplaced me with someone else. But he knew my cousin. Well now he's talkin to me alot more without me having to say something first. But seems the main time he talks is when no one else is around. Hes even come so far asking me where i was going for lunch and I think if my friend wasn't going with me he woulda went with me instead. He's even afford to give me a ride home if and when I needed one. But i don't understand if hes wanting to hang out or something why not just ask me out instead of beating around the bush? What do you guys think this guy is up to?
halfarock Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 He’s probably not beating around the bush but rather just feeling you out while he works up the nerve to ask you out. That’s why he prefers to talk to you when no one is around. It’s classic shyness, insecurity.
ftheunion Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 Stop treatin him like a yankee. You wouldn't understand cause your a female, so you never had to go through what he is. If you are all knowing, then you should know to accept or reject him when/if the time comes. He doesn't have a clue though.
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