tenshu2k Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 Anyway, Me and my girlfriend have had some issues, she said she wanted to see other people, but we decided we would give us one more try. Anyway, we're taking things slow and trying things out again, but I have issues with my girlfriends behavior. It seems like she can be flirty and she seems to have a LOT of guy friends. Theres one in particular that im particularly suspect about, and she seems to talk to him a lot, about as much (or more) than she talks to me. The other day, she made a private album (of decent pictures however) to send to him, none of them of course included pics of me/us. I thought that there was wrong. She did once tell me that this was a guy that she would consider going out with if he was looking for a relationship/we werent together, but she maintains its just friendly. They also talk on the phone as often as she can, sometimes as much as me/her do in my opinion. Any thoughts on this? If we're trying to make things work, I feel like this is another step in the wrong direction.
MystifiedByMen Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 It seems to me that you're on the back burner. I'd get out. The guy does not want a relationship with her so she's keeping you in the picture. You can bet that if he wanted a relationship with her, she'd drop you. If you don't want to leave just yet, you can ask her to stop communicating/seeing/talking with this guy.. at least until your relationship is strong again. See what she says to that.
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