Give Him Signs??

[Mscchick]

Okay... I'm in my 20's and it's really embarrassing that I'm posting this, but I could use some pointers here.

 

Okay.... Myself and my friends are certain that this guy likes me a great deal. He's physically attracted and asks me a lot of questions about myself. A ton of flirting etc.

 

The only problem is that my friends and I worry that I haven't given him enough clues (given him enough confidence) that I'm very interested in him as well. The last time I saw him I was kind of surrounded by a few other guys that also had an interest in me. So... I'm now scared that I didn't get my message across to him. Any suggestions.... specifically from the fellas. How do you know for sure that a girl is interested? To the point that you are confident enough to ask her out. We are talking older guys here. Seriously.

[Yosef]

Oh, yeah, personally, I would have lost a lot of hope in seeing a woman I like being with other guys. It's not so much a jealousy, it's the fact that "you've already been taken" according to him. If you don't do anything, the relationship could shrivel.

 

Hrmm, older guys usually have more confidence, but love is something that can wipe it off. Signs that a girl likes me is:

 

1) They laugh at my jokes, even when I'm not trying to be funny, they find me funny.

2) They always smile around me. This could be a tougher one though if you smile a lot normally.

3) Compliments. Compliment him, as guys find that to be a good signal.

4) Check up on him at parties or activities, just to refresh his spirits. A woman giving me attention, more than other people normally would, would give a me a signal.

[Green]

hmm you could ask him what hes doing this weekend and even if he says "nothing" say that sounds fun wish I could be doing that and smile and touch his arm or something when you say it. You could say hi to him by grabbing his but that could work. While your talking to him if your wearing a skirt you could open your legs and give him a view. you could say something obviouse to some one you both know who you figure will tell him what you said such as " blank is so sexy". you could say something like I had a dream and you were in it, and if he asks what happened say I dont know if I should tell you, Im embaresed, it was sexual.

[ftheunion]

Dunno if this is right, see what you think........ok here it goes:

 

Dunno how comfortable girls are giving guys clues. It will get them more interest in you.

 

I agree with yosef. If he wears a T-shirt, compliment his muscles (biceps or triceps I think, that part between the sholder and elbow)

 

Show a little more cleavage if you can, or legs or just those sexy clothes, then walk up and say hi. Maybe give him a hug.......this 'ell work:

 

I don't know how conservative, or attractive, or busty you are, but this will hint a lot. It might be nerve wracking. Wear no bra, and a shirt that is slightly see though (low thread count or white or something). Go up and talk to him or go somewhere with him. If he has a few friends around, take a few friends with you. Sounds like you're kinda flirty with him, so you could ask him to go somewhere with you and your friends (date) or whatever in the conversation if you want. When you leave, say good bye, give him a hug, maybe tuck you head under his chin or against his neck, you know like in the movies, just briefly, then kiss him on the cheek.

 

It's quick, and will work, even though it is using biology (lust). Touch works well cause the brain chemicals and stuff. Be sure to make clear to your friends that you are looking for a real relationship, so thats why you are trying to hook and reel him in this fasion.

 

You should tell us more info. How much older is he. Where do you know him from? I dunno what else to tell you with the little you have explained. It might be he is holding back cause you're younger. Good luck.