daZed&confUsed005 Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 i like this one girl..i mean really like her but i think she only likes me as a friend..is there any way i could get out of the friend zone and have her see me as a potential bf??
Darkzen Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 Does she find you attractive? If not than getting out of the friend zone is extremely difficult. It would take almost a complete transformation of your appearance or she'd have to feel desperate/vulnerable. I had a best friend who I used to have a huge crush on, she was extremely beautiful and I was chubby. We eventually hooked up, but it wasn't until after I went to basic training and got ripped... the funny thing was she didn't seem interested at first (after I came home from basic training), but was totally c0ck-blocking me whenever any of her friends seemed interested. Either way, chemistry is a huge thing in a relationship... if it's not there, you need to create it to have a chance.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 The only way out of the friend zone is to come clean with her, and end the 'friend' part. Just let her know that you like her as more than friends, and that being 'just friends' is killing you. If she says "I'm sorry, I just like you as a friend" then say that you are sorry, but you aren't looking for 'friends' and its best that you not 'hang out' anymore. That sends a very clear message - you want her, and you will not settle for 'friends'. The second you do settle for 'friends', that is all you will ever be.
MystifiedByMen Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 Just get her drunk, make a move, and go from there! You'll find out very quick if you can get out of the friend zone.
Author daZed&confUsed005 Posted September 15, 2007 Author Posted September 15, 2007 but she doesn't drink and already has a boyfriend..but i just wanna know if she feels anything for me more than a friend..and if not how do i change it??
Road Rage Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 d&c 005 You may not be in the friend zone yet. But if she has a boyfriend then maybe it is a bad time to make a move. I would not get into any of these I like you as more than a friend discussions. Hell with that. Women will most of the time stear you wrong if you listen to their advice:lmao: Just ask her out regardless of all things. One on one to do something. Doesn`t have to be too datelike. I think that is the best way because you at least let her know you are interested. The one on one is the clue. It seems any time you get friendzoned you always end up around other people in situations and it never really seems like you can be center stage. You know what I mean? Been there done that. The thing about it is you may be setting the stage for something down the line when her boyfriend scenario bombs out if nothing else.
Author daZed&confUsed005 Posted September 16, 2007 Author Posted September 16, 2007 yea man dats wat i have been doing so far..but i don't think they will break up any time soon..oh well guess all i can do is wait at this point..i will work on getting out of the friendzone though i am not sure if i am in there or not..she did say i was a good friend once don't know if that puts me there but we flirt all the time.
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