Mandy5 Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 My ex bf and i broke up about 3 months ago now...and im still not over it!..i mean..somedays i feel fine..and others im a mess.. He told me he wanted to break up because he wanted to be single..and he didnt' want a relationship. Well about 3 weeks ago he now has a new gf, after he said he didn't want one. Its so hard to know that he has someone else already after he told me he didnt' want anyone. I dont talk to him, because he wont return my calls.. or answer e-mails, but i occasionally look on his facebook to see what hes been doing or talking too etc. I know i shouldn't... So today it ry and look at his facebook, and he delted me as a friend. I know this sounds so stuipd but it made me upset. I feel really dumb posting all this, i just needed to let it out. I just miss him so much, and he doesn't even care if he ever talks to me again so it looks like. what do i do?
Travis L Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 My ex bf and i broke up about 3 months ago now...and im still not over it!..i mean..somedays i feel fine..and others im a mess.. He told me he wanted to break up because he wanted to be single..and he didnt' want a relationship. Well about 3 weeks ago he now has a new gf, after he said he didn't want one. Its so hard to know that he has someone else already after he told me he didnt' want anyone. I dont talk to him, because he wont return my calls.. or answer e-mails, but i occasionally look on his facebook to see what hes been doing or talking too etc. I know i shouldn't... So today it ry and look at his facebook, and he delted me as a friend. I know this sounds so stuipd but it made me upset. I feel really dumb posting all this, i just needed to let it out. I just miss him so much, and he doesn't even care if he ever talks to me again so it looks like. what do i do? I'm right there with ya Mandy.. 3 months for me, as well... She gave me the line, "I just need space to be single right now." Two weeks after she left she was with another man. While my ex ALWAYS returns my calls and usually initiates them, she has made it clear that friendship only, for now. Which means we hang out a couple times a week and just have fun together. I feel for you that you aren't able to spend time with him but it may actually be that you are in a better place than I am. I can't imagine never speaking to her again but it might actually be for my own good for me to go NC. I just don't want to... I find it hard to give you advice as we are both at the same stage in the breakup (with regards to time.) I guess we just have to keep putting one front out in front of the other, know that we are not alone, and keep trying to improve ourselves! We didn't choose the path, it chose us... We have to make the most of it. I'm staying busy: 2 jobs and grad school. My minutes of free time a day are spent watching TV (tivo is my friend), posting on here, and going out to meet new people. I wish I had the right words to say to you... We'll make it through this fog...sooner or later
BlueEyedSarah Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 My ex bf and i broke up about 3 months ago now...and im still not over it!..i mean..somedays i feel fine..and others im a mess.. He told me he wanted to break up because he wanted to be single..and he didnt' want a relationship. Well about 3 weeks ago he now has a new gf, after he said he didn't want one. Its so hard to know that he has someone else already after he told me he didnt' want anyone. I dont talk to him, because he wont return my calls.. or answer e-mails, but i occasionally look on his facebook to see what hes been doing or talking too etc. I know i shouldn't... So today it ry and look at his facebook, and he delted me as a friend. I know this sounds so stuipd but it made me upset. I feel really dumb posting all this, i just needed to let it out. I just miss him so much, and he doesn't even care if he ever talks to me again so it looks like. what do i do? He is a scared little boy and is running away as he can not face up to telling you the truth. Sounds like you want closure as to why he gave you a pathetic lie. Don't call him or email him, don't contact him at all, sounds like he has moved on and has run away from telling you the truth. He is not worth it!
LikeABird Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 I just removed an ex from facebook, because of two reasons: i dont think facebook is for exes, i.e. too revealing... and also, i really dont want to see pics or news feed of him and his future girlfriend. and it took me a very long time to remove him, we parted 9 months ago! (yeah i guess its sad, i am over him, i just DONT want to see him with other girls)
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