sillymoo Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Hi guys, I have been going through hell recently, all over a guy/friend that dumped me. And you name it i have done it - begging him, constantly emailing him, praying and wishing for him to realise what a mistake he made. In reality all i managed to do is hate myself and sink lower and lower, damaged my self worth and self esteem and basically thought i deserved to be treated like this, and thus i got treated in that fashion. Despite my psychology degree and the extensive study that i have done on human behaviour. The point that i am trying to make that whilst we all analyse and look for any small hope that he/she will come back to us, the sad reality is that whilst we open our heart out to others and pray that they can offer us explanations to why our ex's are cruel and cold and worst fof all indifferent towards us, this forum has helped me understand that i was not alone in my suffering and i really hope that we can all realise that the time and energy we spend on our ex's is time that we could be spending thinking and loving ourselves (pretty much like they have). Love to you all xx
todreaminblue Posted September 14, 2007 Posted September 14, 2007 Its hard to deal with cruelty coldness and disrespect and its posts like yours that help people like me so heartfelt thanks from me to you........deb( todreaminblue)
Author sillymoo Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 Thanks deb, we are loved - how i know this is because we have other people in our lives that love us like friends and family. Also the he/she that hurt us must of liked us in the beginning, we musn't blame ourselves for them treating us this way and perhaps even when we feel at our lowest we will all learn lessons from this experience. love silymoo xx
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