oppath Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 What doesn't make sense is someone who has > 400 posts, but has never commented on any thread other than his own. I'm just saying...
amber1 Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 DA, why don't you be positive when you talk to her? Tell her "I know things aren't going well with this guy right now, but he is a jerk for treating you bad. Someone better will come along and you will completely forget about him." Give her a little rainbow of hope. Friends are supposed to encourage each other, not give up on each other.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 16, 2007 Author Posted September 16, 2007 DA, why don't you be positive when you talk to her? Tell her "I know things aren't going well with this guy right now, but he is a jerk for treating you bad. Someone better will come along and you will completely forget about him." Give her a little rainbow of hope. Friends are supposed to encourage each other, not give up on each other. But she is always in that situation, every since I known her. And I just want to hear something GOOD for a change not the same ole-"He is avoiding me and won't take me out" Another girl used to tell me the same thing when I always talked about getting rejected and I can understand.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 16, 2007 Author Posted September 16, 2007 Huh? Is it just me or did that not make sense? I meant to say i HAVE taken a lot of the advice posted on the boards seriously. Like-"Dont call the same night as the date when you get home"
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 16, 2007 Author Posted September 16, 2007 What doesn't make sense is someone who has > 400 posts, but has never commented on any thread other than his own. I'm just saying... I'm flattered you want me to be more active on the board but Most of the other threads I can't post in because I have nothing to contribute because I'm not dating anyone and still trying to et to a 2nd date before I turn 33.
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 I meant to say i HAVE taken a lot of the advice posted on the boards seriously. Like-"Dont call the same night as the date when you get home" Well that totally depends on the situation and the 2 people. In dating there is no golden rule that works with everyone. There are some bigger pieces of advice that have been given to you on here my fellow members that would help you in dating and life that you would benefit from if you have taken seriously. I'm flattered you want me to be more active on the board but Most of the other threads I can't post in because I have nothing to contribute because I'm not dating anyone and still trying to et to a 2nd date before I turn 33. There are many people on her not dating someone but they still contribute to other threads other tan the one they start.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 18, 2007 Author Posted September 18, 2007 DA, why don't you be positive when you talk to her? Tell her "I know things aren't going well with this guy right now, but he is a jerk for treating you bad. Someone better will come along and you will completely forget about him." Give her a little rainbow of hope. Friends are supposed to encourage each other, not give up on each other. After hearing she was sleep during fooball yesterday I suggested therapy today. Anytime you u let a guy/girl interfere with the things you love to do then it's time to go to therapy. No girl on this planet will ever make me not interested in watching a football game.
Trialbyfire Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 But she is always in that situation, every since I known her. And I just want to hear something GOOD for a change not the same ole-"He is avoiding me and won't take me out" Another girl used to tell me the same thing when I always talked about getting rejected and I can understand. We're waiting for that too, from you. I hope you can see the similarities.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 18, 2007 Author Posted September 18, 2007 We're waiting for that too, from you. I hope you can see the similarities. I haven't went on anymore dates since July. And my purpose for doing it on here was for me to become a better dater
Trialbyfire Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 I haven't went on anymore dates since July. And my purpose for doing it on here was for me to become a better dater Why is it so important to get more dates? What's the use of dating?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 18, 2007 Author Posted September 18, 2007 Why is it so important to get more dates? What's the use of dating? So I can be involved with a woman before I turned 33
Trialbyfire Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 So I can be involved with a woman before I turned 33 So...what do you feel you need to do, in order to get involved with a woman before age 33? Do you think being a better dater will do it? How do you plan to retain the interest of a woman, after one or two dates?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 18, 2007 Author Posted September 18, 2007 So...what do you feel you need to do, in order to get involved with a woman before age 33? Do you think being a better dater will do it? How do you plan to retain the interest of a woman, after one or two dates? 1. Continue to be talkative on the date 2. Create a SEXY VIBE-Different Hairstyle, Better Outfits 3. Remain POSITIVE on the Phone before the Face to Face Meeting
Izzy B Posted September 18, 2007 Posted September 18, 2007 Yes, she definitely needs a therapist. If she is laying in bed at 7 p.m. on, she is definitely clinically depressed. Since she can't seem to snap out of it, her thoughts could very easily be at the point of suicide. What you are describing is not normal behavior for just being broken up with. Please tell her to get help. She may require meds in order to save her life. Be a friend and really urge her to get a therapist. If you hear thoughts of suicide or you suspect at all, call suicide hotline.
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