aditto0819 Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Hello ALL, well this is my first time visiting this website and it has helped me alot and to understand many ppl go through this..anyways i would like anyones help if they could! if you can bare with me on my story.. ok right now am 22 years old and have only been in 1 relationiship in my life with my ex i met him when i was 15 yrs.. and dated for 4 years.Then i decided i wanted to break up with him bc i wanted to see what was "out there" you know like any young girl would, so i did it broke his heart, then he decidied to get a new girlfirend very young to say just got out of high school..yeah.. so i was hurt and didnt know what to do with myself. though we would always have contact with eachother when they were going out.. i mean the longest we do not talk is about a month then him or i would text or call and it would happen all over again. so we would still talk to eachother even when he was with her and i was doing my own thing..no bf or anything like that but living my own life. we would met up dinner and then always end up hooking up with eachother, then he would go back to her and i would i guess kinda wait till the next time..SO now this has been going on for like almost 2 years now.. (i little ashamed to say) though with this 2 years i forgot to mention we went out again and tryed going out but it just doesnt work, then of course he would go back out with her..so anyways like i was saying it has been 2 years and i can not do this to myself anymore..he always tells me how he still loves me and i love him very much too and hes not in love with her at all blah, blah, blah.. hes a lier..and we will marry and be with eachother agian but not know..yeah am just sick of this..he only calls me when he wants and I always pick up and is nice t o him..note he still has this gf. i know hes not in love with me anymore and doesnt want me, but i think he just wants me in his life still and wants me to still love him.. i love him soo much but we cant be together anymore..its not there and it wont work.. its been hell for 2 years i cant believe i am still dealing with this for this long and he has a gf...6 years now! i just need to LET GO! and finally ready.. its my turn now to be happy and not let this guy have me anymore and i want someone to love me and am ready to find love. note am moving across country for a bit for school in like a week and he doesnt even care! i told him and he was like ohhh thats your bad, your the one doing this to us.. i feel like i cant get over him i just want to already.. sorry this is soo long but long and painful story i just want some advise anyone can help... and also what u think he feels about me?? thank you so much *A
Blue Liana Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 What did you call the emotion he give to you? Love, not, absolutely , I dare to say that He didn't do anything to keep you, didn't discuss about the broken with you, ..., and had the new gf immediately? Ask yourself, everything will be better if he back? What's the matter if you realize all thing is worst? etc...Did you ask yourself if he speak ill to his gf, he didn't do the same thing to you before her? Many thing I want to say, but I believe that you SAW what was happen I don't give any suggestion or advise, this is your matter, and no one can handle it except you
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