Trialbyfire Posted September 14, 2007 Posted September 14, 2007 Exactly and it doesn't really have to do with how much time they wait and so on, it's their attitude and that they are patient and willing to wait and respect you. (and don't complain and ask when in the meantime!) Anything that makes a woman happy is a turn on and will definatly be reciprocated! That was just the example that that therapist gave, though I don't think he meant wait until marriage but to say something like that that to weed out the jerks. A healthy relationship naturally generates positive synergies. An unhealthy or dysfunctional relationship will drain. I call the one-sided relationships, masturbationships.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 That's a great attitude to have, in some cases. If you're attractive, you won't have to settle. If you're not, you'll spend a lot of time alone. Some people are perfectly ok with that. So if your not attractive you have no other choice than to settle? Almost everyone is attractive in another's eyes, it's just finding that person that is what everyone is looking for. For the rest they are the people who are cruel, players and so on who deserve to be alone. yep, the trick is to find that person who is into your "own way." I don't even know that means. It's not about controlling or making someone conform. Hehhe.. if only, my dear, if only. I guess if you haven't done those things to make a woman happy then you wouldn't know!
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 A healthy relationship naturally generates positive synergies. An unhealthy or dysfunctional relationship will drain. I call the one-sided relationships, masturbationships. Exactly! Healthy creates healthy, selfishness results in you not getting anything back and ending up alone.
Cad Rake Posted September 14, 2007 Posted September 14, 2007 I guess if you haven't done those things to make a woman happy then you wouldn't know! guess not!
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 guess not! Not trying to pick on ya, but maybe if you think about what we said it could help you to think about it from a different perspective.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 ah, the arrogance. LOL Was it just me or did anyone else hear the woosh sound of what we have been saying going right over his head?
Green Posted September 14, 2007 Posted September 14, 2007 so he has been hard for you eh. the hard on hug classic... well watch out cause if this guy doesnt mbate he is like a volcanoe right now, a volcanoe that wants to explode inside u babe
Cad Rake Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 LOL Was it just me or did anyone else hear the woosh sound of what we have been saying going right over his head? Heh, well, probably doesn't help that I take you and trialbyfire about as seriously as I do 80 year old alzheimers patients.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 15, 2007 Author Posted September 15, 2007 so he has been hard for you eh. the hard on hug classic... well watch out cause if this guy doesnt mbate he is like a volcanoe right now, a volcanoe that wants to explode inside u babe Well hard on was the result of some kissing and so on after the movie and discovered with a hug. Anyway though what he does with that problem after I leave him is his problem. Obviously he will want to, not denying that but is respect when and isn't able to do what he may want yet anyway! LOL Heh, well, probably doesn't help that I take you and trialbyfire about as seriously as I do 80 year old alzheimers patients. Take us seriously or not, though the result with woman will prove us right.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 16, 2007 Author Posted September 16, 2007 So tonight I see him again. We relax and watch some movies at his place again (I was tired from working today and just wanted to relax). So I was in the mood, but wasn't going to have sex with him yet. I have only really kissed him so far and have been reserved about that as well. So tonight with the combo of being in the mood and he is growing on me so we start making out and I pretty much tell him that I am good with doing anything but sex and he doesn't take the bait! Ya we did make out but didn't jump me or anything. Hmm he said he was tired, though so was I. I couldn't help wonder if it was because if he couldn't go all the way, he didn't want to bother much. He even stopped kissing to ask if I wanted anything else to drink, we are drinking grape juice.
Green Posted September 16, 2007 Posted September 16, 2007 last time a girl said she does everything but sex I imeadetly got her naked and did everything but sex with her... and then I even ended up having sex with her...
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 17, 2007 Author Posted September 17, 2007 last time a girl said she does everything but sex I imeadetly got her naked and did everything but sex with her... and then I even ended up having sex with her... Good for you!? LOL What was the point of that response? Wanted to brag? I meant what I said and that wouldn't have happened.
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